Anthony,
Just in case you come back I am going to try to explain things to you a little differently, in the hopes that you actually understand....
You have a clause in your orders that requires both you and mom to allow each other the opportunity for extra parenting time if you have to work etc., during your normal parenting time.
In order to convince a judge to find someone in contempt you have to prove that they are not following the orders.
You cannot prove that mom is not offering you extra parenting time, because you do not know for certain that mom is working during the time that the child is with her. You are speculating that mom is doing so, but you do not know for certain.
On the other hand, mom knew for certain that you were working and the child was with grandma. In addition, she asked you for the extra parenting time and you said no.
So, think about it? Who is legally in more potential trouble than the other?
Also, it is normal and expected that both parents will involve themselves with school and get the school to provide them their own copies of whatever is needed. It is not normal and expected that one of the parents has to spoon feed the other. Its nice of a parent to take on that roll if they want to, but its not normal and expected.
And as far as the myspace etc., stuff is concerned...you seriously defamed mom here, so you are no better than mom. Just stay away from her myspace pages etc.
My almost 3 year old granddaughter knows that the wine in my fridge is "grandma juice" and that she cannot have any of it.
The fact that you call the mother of your child "wanton" is a pretty clear indication that you are far too concerned with mom's life. Is your child happy, healthy and well cared for? If so, move on.
