remarriage
I'm no laywer. In the state of Ok your divorce is final that day. Your considered single but can not marry in that state for 6 months. Since he is in VA he can remarrying but the marriage is not legal in the state of OK. If he does return he will have to remarrying again but only after the 6 months has expired. this info is located here under the state resources Oklahoma search for Divorce. I don't have the exact statue but here is what it stated.
Even though Oklahoma law prohibits remarriage to its divorced residents for six months following divorce, the prohibition is in the nature of a legal impediment to marriage, probably existing for the purpose of allowing some time to consider marital reunion. In Oklahoma, when you are divorced, you are divorced - a single person.
If you establish residence out-of-state, you are entitled to remarry there in accordance with any legal requirements that state may have. But, under current Oklahoma law, while you may marry outside of Oklahoma, if you return to Oklahoma during the six month period and actually live together as husband and wife during that time, you would be committing a crime under Oklahoma law.