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thirdtimearound
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What is the name of your state? Utah
This is my story. Married for ten years, then we divorced for less than 10 months. During this 10 month span we each dated other people, and actually I married this other guy for less than 2 months- my former husband of ten years and I ended up working things out. Now I am remarried happily to my former husband of ten years, he knows I am pregnant and he also knows there is a huge possibility this child is not biologically his. But that does not matter to him- we already have two boys of our own, and he wants to raise this one under his name, with full parental rights- which is perfectly fine with me. Here is the problem- first, the other guy I was briefly with didn't want a thing to do with this baby and quite frankly didn't want to accept that it may be his. Now, that I am remarried to my former husband and we are happy, the other guy wants me to give him rights to this child if its potentially his. This sounds bad, but he originally told me (actually yelled) that he wanted nothing to do with this child and that I better not come after him for any money or child support- now all of a sudden he is heartbroken and wants to have rights. My husband and I are planning on having the birth certificate with my husband listed as the father- with full parental rights. How far can the other guy push this issue? I am asking because my husband is military, and we are going overseas for five years after the baby is born- I want this cleared up before we leave!!
HELP!!
This is my story. Married for ten years, then we divorced for less than 10 months. During this 10 month span we each dated other people, and actually I married this other guy for less than 2 months- my former husband of ten years and I ended up working things out. Now I am remarried happily to my former husband of ten years, he knows I am pregnant and he also knows there is a huge possibility this child is not biologically his. But that does not matter to him- we already have two boys of our own, and he wants to raise this one under his name, with full parental rights- which is perfectly fine with me. Here is the problem- first, the other guy I was briefly with didn't want a thing to do with this baby and quite frankly didn't want to accept that it may be his. Now, that I am remarried to my former husband and we are happy, the other guy wants me to give him rights to this child if its potentially his. This sounds bad, but he originally told me (actually yelled) that he wanted nothing to do with this child and that I better not come after him for any money or child support- now all of a sudden he is heartbroken and wants to have rights. My husband and I are planning on having the birth certificate with my husband listed as the father- with full parental rights. How far can the other guy push this issue? I am asking because my husband is military, and we are going overseas for five years after the baby is born- I want this cleared up before we leave!!
HELP!!