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[chazzajo]

What is the name of your state?california

I HAVE A MEDIATION DATE ON THE 4TH OF FEB IN SAN BERNADINO. AS I HAVE POSTED ALREADY. I HAVE ALREADY FILED AND NOW THAT THE MOTHER IS SERVED BY THE D.A. SHE FILED IN SAN BERNADINO, I HAVE ALL DOCUMENTS AND ORDERS THAT I FILLED FIRST AND THAT SHE'S A LIE. I WANNA NIP THIS IN THE BUTT ON THE FOURTH BECAUSE I HAVE ANOTHER COURT DATE THAT IS SUPPOST TO BE ON THE 17TH . BUT I'LL BE ON VACATION . I SCHEDUALED ALL MY COURT CASES AROUND MY TRIP , BUT THE MOTHER IS TRYING TO SCHEDUALE THE CASES B4 MY DATES ALREADY SET . CAN I PAY A LAWYER FOR A DAY OF REPRESENTATION IN SAN BERNADINO TO PUT HER LITTLE SCAM TO A END AT MEDIATION?? IF SO HOW MUCH AM I LOOKING @???

 

[LdiJ]

What is the name of your state?california

I HAVE A MEDIATION DATE ON THE 4TH OF FEB IN SAN BERNADINO. AS I HAVE POSTED ALREADY. I HAVE ALREADY FILED AND NOW THAT THE MOTHER IS SERVED BY THE D.A. SHE FILED IN SAN BERNADINO, I HAVE ALL DOCUMENTS AND ORDERS THAT I FILLED FIRST AND THAT SHE'S A LIE. I WANNA NIP THIS IN THE BUTT ON THE FOURTH BECAUSE I HAVE ANOTHER COURT DATE THAT IS SUPPOST TO BE ON THE 17TH . BUT I'LL BE ON VACATION . I SCHEDUALED ALL MY COURT CASES AROUND MY TRIP , BUT THE MOTHER IS TRYING TO SCHEDUALE THE CASES B4 MY DATES ALREADY SET . CAN I PAY A LAWYER FOR A DAY OF REPRESENTATION IN SAN BERNADINO TO PUT HER LITTLE SCAM TO A END AT MEDIATION?? IF SO HOW MUCH AM I LOOKING @???

One would think that a truly interested parent would find their child to be 100% more important than a vacation.

 

[king sol]

Are both cases in the same county? San Bernadino?

When you go to the first court date, make the court aware of the other case. The courts will simply combine the two.

It really doesn't matter who files first. You want this, she wants that. In CA, mediation is the most important part of custody/visitation. The judge is expecting you and mom, as parents who are most interested in the best interest of their child/ren, to reach an schedule themselves. Parents who fail to agree are shown no simpathy and often the judges ruling will take no consideration regarding the parent's wishes.

My suggestion is...go to court and in mediation, have a plan for custody/visitation that is fair and reasonable and in the best interest of your children. In the scheme of things, the dual hearings will be of little concern.

(Note: Whoever filed with the county clerk first, would have received the earlier calender date)

 

[rmet4nzkx]

Please go back to your original thread and answer the quesitons there such as which county has jurisdiction, only that way can we respond with the correct proceedure, also consult with the attorney you already have in San Diego County, but jurisdiciton is what will determine which dates, not whether or not you have vacation or who filed first.

 

[casa]

What is the name of your state?california

I HAVE A MEDIATION DATE ON THE 4TH OF FEB IN SAN BERNADINO. AS I HAVE POSTED ALREADY. I HAVE ALREADY FILED AND NOW THAT THE MOTHER IS SERVED BY THE D.A. SHE FILED IN SAN BERNADINO, I HAVE ALL DOCUMENTS AND ORDERS THAT I FILLED FIRST AND THAT SHE'S A LIE. I WANNA NIP THIS IN THE BUTT ON THE FOURTH BECAUSE I HAVE ANOTHER COURT DATE THAT IS SUPPOST TO BE ON THE 17TH . BUT I'LL BE ON VACATION . I SCHEDUALED ALL MY COURT CASES AROUND MY TRIP , BUT THE MOTHER IS TRYING TO SCHEDUALE THE CASES B4 MY DATES ALREADY SET . CAN I PAY A LAWYER FOR A DAY OF REPRESENTATION IN SAN BERNADINO TO PUT HER LITTLE SCAM TO A END AT MEDIATION?? IF SO HOW MUCH AM I LOOKING @???

No attorneys will be allowed in mediation. Parents only (or support person if necessary can accompany you- but not be in the room for mediation) So an attorney will not help you with mediation.

Is the current court order in SD county? If so, bring that court order, provide the date the case will be heard on your current filing, and your proof of service from the DA to the mediation. These documents need to be filed with the mediator's office by TODAY or they possibly won't be
considered by the mediator. I've already told you these must be filed prior to the mediation.

 

[chazzajo]

Casa Thanx For The Help

The Mediation Office In San Bernadino Would Not Let Me Fax Or Tell Them The Case # That Already Has Been Filed In San Diego. So I'lll Do As You Have Sugessted! I'll Go Get A Copy Of The D.a. Subpoena And All My Documents And"god Willing " They Will Cancel Her Orders &they'll Take Care Of Her For Lying !! :d

 

[stepmom65]

The Mediation Office In San Bernadino Would Not Let Me Fax Or Tell Them The Case # That Already Has Been Filed In San Diego. So I'lll Do As You Have Sugessted! I'll Go Get A Copy Of The D.a. Subpoena And All My Documents And"god Willing " They Will Cancel Her Orders &they'll Take Care Of Her For Lying !! :d

Is it just me or is every word capitalized except for: god?????

 

[rmet4nzkx]

The Mediation Office In San Bernadino Would Not Let Me Fax Or Tell Them The Case # That Already Has Been Filed In San Diego. So I'lll Do As You Have Sugessted! I'll Go Get A Copy Of The D.a. Subpoena And All My Documents And"god Willing " They Will Cancel Her Orders &they'll Take Care Of Her For Lying !! :d

Please answer this question.

Which court has jurisdiction????? It won't help if you are not filing in the correct venue or if you are not making the correct motions in opposition!


Then and only then, can we tell you what to do.

 

[chazzajo]

stepmom 65

sorry "BILLY GRAHAM"(stepmom65) I thought this site was for free legal advice i didn't know i was gonna get scrutinized for my grammar!

 

[casa]

The Mediation Office In San Bernadino Would Not Let Me Fax Or Tell Them The Case # That Already Has Been Filed In San Diego. So I'lll Do As You Have Sugessted! I'll Go Get A Copy Of The D.a. Subpoena And All My Documents And"god Willing " They Will Cancel Her Orders &they'll Take Care Of Her For Lying !! :d

You have duplicate posts...so I'm duplicating my response:

The thing you are missing here is IN WHAT COUNTY IS THE CURRENT ORDER?? If YOU live in San Diego that doesn't mean that's the correct county to file in (that has jurisdiction) If the ORIGINAL order is from San Bernadino than your X filed correctly. If the ORIGINAL order is from San Diego and your X moved to San Bernadino since then, but you remained there and filed there~ Then you did file correctly.

We are trying to find out who has jurisdiction~ The reason you are getting the run around with people you call, is because they probably are unsure who has jurisdiction as well.

WHAT COUNTY was the ORIGINAL order issued in?