I appreciate you all taking time to look into my request. Here's a little more info.. The guy called me on my cell phone from his home phone so the recorder was obviously on his end. It was a cassette tape, about 15 minutes or less. On the tape he claims to have seen inappropriate behavior after a night of drinking. I ask who else he has told this information to and he said no one, he also said he wouldn't be telling anyone else. A month later he gathered 3 people together, including my husband, and played the tape. Now he is threatening to tell one more person. This has caused damage to my marriage and is about to cause damage to another marriage. The biggest issue is that what he told me he saw, and then told everyone else he saw, it never happened. He made it up. Neither of us can prove the other wrong but he's taking his lies and ruining my reputation and my husband's at work. Everyone involved works together except me. I hope this helps.. If it is illegal in Texas (where we seem to have different laws than anywhere else) you better believe I'll be contacting a lawyer!