What is the name of your state? Texas
Ok --- Bear with me as I give you this story for your answers!
Mom and Dad have two daughters(twins) 19 months old- Mom and Dad broke up during the pregnancy-
Children were born at 26 weeks- Dad and Mom visited in the hospital while children were there. They were there from April to July 1st (baby a) then August (baby b) In June CPS was called on Mom. Mom told Dad- Dad called CPS they said they needed a home visit phych and drug texts on the household for Mom and Dad- Dad and Mom complied- Dad have one Visit with daughters in CPS on September 12, 2006- Dad was unable to get them in home- Mom refused and Her family refused- Mom and Dad had signed an agreement- Notorized agree to shared parenting time- Mom never complied - Mom and sisters and her mother called and harrassed. Dad was not able to see daughters and was literally emotionless due to calls from mom and her family-
Was offered a job in another state and took it- CPS told him until he paid Child Support he didnt get to see his daughters and that they were doing him a favor- Dad moved and started looking for legal help-
Dad didnt talk to mom from September 12th after that visit until November 15th- mom emailed Dad said she was in Minnesota with daughters living with his Sister- Emails began between Dad and Mom-
Mom said she needed money - dad said I want to see my kids-
They made an agreement he could see daughter when him and her were both going to be in Texas for Christmas- Mom never showed said her family needed to see them first- Dad had to drive 24 hrs back home the next day- Dad and mom emailed mean and good emails back and forth until another agreement that Dad could see girls in March (this was made Jan 07) Dads sister would fly girls in-
Then Feb 7th mom moved back to Texas- Dad finds out that Mom left Texas in Nov 06 b/c she was attacked by her moms b/f- mom denies it - But dads sister got a call from mom crying about the situtation- Dads sister told mom "if you dont move out of that house, im calling my brother and he can come get them" so mom moved to Minnesota-
Now in Feb. mom moves - dad said call me when you get to Texas- A month later mom calls after Dad kept calling mom's sister- In march mom and dad talk about an agreement mediated that dad would pay for- Mom said ok and that Dad could come fly to get girls for 3 weeks in May-
In April right before Girls 1st bday, Mom calls and says The Attorney General says I can let you have the girls- Dad says what? Mom says yeah we filed to sue you for CS- Dad says well I still want my girls in May - Mom says no. Dad still flys in May and tries to find her- No where to be found- Calls mom's sister and mom;s mom - they wont tell anything.
In June Dad and Mom show up in Court- Dad says give me a DNA- this woman wont allow me to see my kids - Something could be wrong- Dad had found an email mom had sent to another man asking if he was the girls father-
Dad and Mom are back in Court Aug for Child Support and there was a continuence-
At this time Dad is aware mom moved againt july in with her New Boyfriend. So mom has moved now a couple times- The home mom moved into in Feb was bought by her grandparents- free rent basically maybe 200, but mom moves anyway-
Sept and another hearing - they dont ask for Child Support b/c mom is rcving 1200 for the children and dont want any interference with the childrens benefits- Dad gets visitation-
At Dads 2nd Visitation mom's bf gets in dads face telling him "you need to dress more appropriate for my children" dad is very passive- says "um ok they are my children" then B/F with one child in arms and finger in dads face says "no they are not yours until you pay for them"
Dad leaves and sits in truck documenting the confrontation. Calls mom when is home and asks her why did you allow that - dad is recording and mom's b/f in background on tape says "I just want to break your Fu**ing Neck"
Each and every 4 visits at Bill Millers Rest moms Bf sits and watch from outside window-
Next dad has the children for 4 visits alone for 4 hours- First day dad goes to get his girls and mom's b/f's mom says you will see daddy later- dad says nothing other than they "have alot of grandmas".
When the visit is over mom and her bf's sister and bf;s mom come to pick up children and dad gives mom a paper - a parenting worksheet she can fill out saying what she wants, so they work together one custody- BF's mom jumps in and says my son will be making this decision as well- Dad says no this is mine and mOms. Bf's mom continues to be hostile get loud- Dad walks off-
Mom and Dad seem to get more and more cold with each other as mom gets more people involved- On Dads 4th visit Mom refuses children - was actually not there at all- Police call mom - mom says dad cannot have children until he treats her better. Mom and Dad had argued on thursday before that Saturday (visitation day)
Cop said that mom was being coached by BF and that she was not going to say where they were and she had intended on never letting him see the children that weekend. Mom told cops that her attorney said she didnt need to let him see them since Dad had fired his attorney-
This is situation at hand
But While Mom was in Minnesota she worked as a stripper and had a babysitter who has given a statment to Dad about Moms inability to bond and her lack of care for the two children. Sister gives statement as well about Moms incompetance and lack to make decisions and care for children as needed- Mom had an RX she never filled and gave to child. Mom was not around when baby b needed to go to the ER so Dads sister took the baby- Dad mom also took the children into the hospital b/c mom wouldnt. Mom was living with a man in Minnesota in another town and babies were with sister and babysitter.
When mom was in Texas moms 15yr old sister was caring for these medical needs babies- while mom is at school- 15 yr old sister was told by moms 18 yr old sis that she needed to stop drinking and smoking and going out- all over myspace- 18 yr old sister was taken from MOM's mother by CPS along with one other sister -
Moms Mother also is still living with man who assaulted mom where 15yr old is living.
The concern is Dad wants to go after custody once temp orders are in place and when girls are age 3 it will earier- Dad has had many many issues while with mom with violence in her family- Mom;s previous bf prior to the one now raped her oldest who is now 23 yrs old after mom sent that bf to pick up that daughter from jail- Mom;s mom beat all her daughter including mom in front of hom and Mom was half raised by grandparents who are also very hostile- Moms mom is an alcoholic-
Moms BF is 22 and divorced with 2 children and has controlling and threatening behavior and was verified by BF;s EX-WIFE-
With all dads hard work and keeping with his orders and non agressive behavior and moms lack in caring enough for babies as well as their disabiliies and weakened social skills will Dad have a shot at full custody or dad would also be happy with expanded possesion- Thur-Sun every week. Please tell me what you feel a judge should and could be most co-herent to in deciding a factor- Dad has stable job and stable home-mom has moved alot with children and left them with several people- First time Dad picked them up at 18 mos never cried when left mom-
I hope this is all readable thanks!!
Ok --- Bear with me as I give you this story for your answers!
Mom and Dad have two daughters(twins) 19 months old- Mom and Dad broke up during the pregnancy-
Children were born at 26 weeks- Dad and Mom visited in the hospital while children were there. They were there from April to July 1st (baby a) then August (baby b) In June CPS was called on Mom. Mom told Dad- Dad called CPS they said they needed a home visit phych and drug texts on the household for Mom and Dad- Dad and Mom complied- Dad have one Visit with daughters in CPS on September 12, 2006- Dad was unable to get them in home- Mom refused and Her family refused- Mom and Dad had signed an agreement- Notorized agree to shared parenting time- Mom never complied - Mom and sisters and her mother called and harrassed. Dad was not able to see daughters and was literally emotionless due to calls from mom and her family-
Was offered a job in another state and took it- CPS told him until he paid Child Support he didnt get to see his daughters and that they were doing him a favor- Dad moved and started looking for legal help-
Dad didnt talk to mom from September 12th after that visit until November 15th- mom emailed Dad said she was in Minnesota with daughters living with his Sister- Emails began between Dad and Mom-
Mom said she needed money - dad said I want to see my kids-
They made an agreement he could see daughter when him and her were both going to be in Texas for Christmas- Mom never showed said her family needed to see them first- Dad had to drive 24 hrs back home the next day- Dad and mom emailed mean and good emails back and forth until another agreement that Dad could see girls in March (this was made Jan 07) Dads sister would fly girls in-
Then Feb 7th mom moved back to Texas- Dad finds out that Mom left Texas in Nov 06 b/c she was attacked by her moms b/f- mom denies it - But dads sister got a call from mom crying about the situtation- Dads sister told mom "if you dont move out of that house, im calling my brother and he can come get them" so mom moved to Minnesota-
Now in Feb. mom moves - dad said call me when you get to Texas- A month later mom calls after Dad kept calling mom's sister- In march mom and dad talk about an agreement mediated that dad would pay for- Mom said ok and that Dad could come fly to get girls for 3 weeks in May-
In April right before Girls 1st bday, Mom calls and says The Attorney General says I can let you have the girls- Dad says what? Mom says yeah we filed to sue you for CS- Dad says well I still want my girls in May - Mom says no. Dad still flys in May and tries to find her- No where to be found- Calls mom's sister and mom;s mom - they wont tell anything.
In June Dad and Mom show up in Court- Dad says give me a DNA- this woman wont allow me to see my kids - Something could be wrong- Dad had found an email mom had sent to another man asking if he was the girls father-
Dad and Mom are back in Court Aug for Child Support and there was a continuence-
At this time Dad is aware mom moved againt july in with her New Boyfriend. So mom has moved now a couple times- The home mom moved into in Feb was bought by her grandparents- free rent basically maybe 200, but mom moves anyway-
Sept and another hearing - they dont ask for Child Support b/c mom is rcving 1200 for the children and dont want any interference with the childrens benefits- Dad gets visitation-
At Dads 2nd Visitation mom's bf gets in dads face telling him "you need to dress more appropriate for my children" dad is very passive- says "um ok they are my children" then B/F with one child in arms and finger in dads face says "no they are not yours until you pay for them"
Dad leaves and sits in truck documenting the confrontation. Calls mom when is home and asks her why did you allow that - dad is recording and mom's b/f in background on tape says "I just want to break your Fu**ing Neck"
Each and every 4 visits at Bill Millers Rest moms Bf sits and watch from outside window-
Next dad has the children for 4 visits alone for 4 hours- First day dad goes to get his girls and mom's b/f's mom says you will see daddy later- dad says nothing other than they "have alot of grandmas".
When the visit is over mom and her bf's sister and bf;s mom come to pick up children and dad gives mom a paper - a parenting worksheet she can fill out saying what she wants, so they work together one custody- BF's mom jumps in and says my son will be making this decision as well- Dad says no this is mine and mOms. Bf's mom continues to be hostile get loud- Dad walks off-
Mom and Dad seem to get more and more cold with each other as mom gets more people involved- On Dads 4th visit Mom refuses children - was actually not there at all- Police call mom - mom says dad cannot have children until he treats her better. Mom and Dad had argued on thursday before that Saturday (visitation day)
Cop said that mom was being coached by BF and that she was not going to say where they were and she had intended on never letting him see the children that weekend. Mom told cops that her attorney said she didnt need to let him see them since Dad had fired his attorney-
This is situation at hand
But While Mom was in Minnesota she worked as a stripper and had a babysitter who has given a statment to Dad about Moms inability to bond and her lack of care for the two children. Sister gives statement as well about Moms incompetance and lack to make decisions and care for children as needed- Mom had an RX she never filled and gave to child. Mom was not around when baby b needed to go to the ER so Dads sister took the baby- Dad mom also took the children into the hospital b/c mom wouldnt. Mom was living with a man in Minnesota in another town and babies were with sister and babysitter.
When mom was in Texas moms 15yr old sister was caring for these medical needs babies- while mom is at school- 15 yr old sister was told by moms 18 yr old sis that she needed to stop drinking and smoking and going out- all over myspace- 18 yr old sister was taken from MOM's mother by CPS along with one other sister -
Moms Mother also is still living with man who assaulted mom where 15yr old is living.
The concern is Dad wants to go after custody once temp orders are in place and when girls are age 3 it will earier- Dad has had many many issues while with mom with violence in her family- Mom;s previous bf prior to the one now raped her oldest who is now 23 yrs old after mom sent that bf to pick up that daughter from jail- Mom;s mom beat all her daughter including mom in front of hom and Mom was half raised by grandparents who are also very hostile- Moms mom is an alcoholic-
Moms BF is 22 and divorced with 2 children and has controlling and threatening behavior and was verified by BF;s EX-WIFE-
With all dads hard work and keeping with his orders and non agressive behavior and moms lack in caring enough for babies as well as their disabiliies and weakened social skills will Dad have a shot at full custody or dad would also be happy with expanded possesion- Thur-Sun every week. Please tell me what you feel a judge should and could be most co-herent to in deciding a factor- Dad has stable job and stable home-mom has moved alot with children and left them with several people- First time Dad picked them up at 18 mos never cried when left mom-
I hope this is all readable thanks!!
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