What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state? New Hampshire
I have been going through the divorce from hell. S/T/B/X cash business $50 a month child support for two kids. After 7 years and still not profitable enough to support the family I asked him to find employment and help with finances h e refused and left. Since then living the life of a porno star New Harley, vacations, spends 2 months in FLA in the winter , Superbowls the past 3 years, bought a beach cottage etccccc... I lost my job that had supported us through OUR goal of self employment. STUPIDLY not being involved in the business Antiques as I should of been. He had surprisingly come up with a substantial amount of $$$$ but to little to late. My credit is now junk, he has watched us almost lose the home he had lived in cash free for 17 years, file bankruptcy, go to public assistance, and spend every dime on a car that has still very short life .
He has blown his kids off repeatldly for the past two summers managed to see them very rarely. His schedule just what I know is as follows 3rd week of Jan go to the Superbowl (whereever it may be) Mardis Gras along the way, then off to Florida told my son he stays in the Keys for a week has a "show" he does there, Daytona Bike Week then on his way home in March sometime. May beach cottage is open and spends summer with his new found peers, June Bike Show in NH another week, August 3 week trip cross country to Sturgis, October Biketoberfest in Daytona. I find it hard to keep the tension out of my childrens life a daughter who is 13 and a son who is 16. They have watched him for two years.S/T/B/X MAIN INTEREST IS NOW IMPRESSING HIS NEW FOUND PEERS AS MR EXCITEMENT . Mykids hear nothing of his exciting adventures not even a shirt or postcard. They also watched a cheap , greedy "father" make a drama of any request they have asked for.
He lives with his mother who is in her 80's and a brother who is an enraged alchoholic who as s/t/b/x
never worked a 9-5 and has lived with MOM paying the bills since I have known him. The kids can not talk to him if they hit a anerve he gets angry crys whatever to avoid a subject. They know nothing about him. I wonder if they really knew what he was if they'd be impressed. My son has caught him smoking dope another issue. He has told him he smokes and has smoked ever since he was 15. I don't know why he had brought the subject up to him befor and I told him to leave my son out of his drug life and there is no reason he needs to share that with him. Well he decided to share. My son came home with a fist full of pot and asked me what it was I told him and he then told me that is what his father is smoking. Upon returning from FLA and the week before court ($50 a month) he had an auction and wanted the kids to help he would pay them$50 each and all his other schmos besides. He had also informed me he had JUST started seeing someone I had told him he should sit down with the kids and let them know not spring her on them. Well at the auction a blond came up to them and introduced herself as his girlfriend. I was called by my son to come get her she was upset no calming her down. Her father never even went to her. I picked her up and he sent my son out also to go home. He was going to take them for a long weekend. Neither want to go with him. I called to leave a voice message saying that he should talk to his daughter he picked up the phone and with an audience beside him he started yelling that he doesn't love me and to leave him alone and why did I take his daughter and son and on and on.... I have been forcing these kids to see him for two years at that point I told him I would leave it up to them.One weekend when he was suppose to take my son and had told him he had plans my I was gone that weekend my son told him I would not let him stay alone his DAD told him just to tell me he was with him he wouldn't say anything, he FORGOT to pick them up one weekend again I was away closing up our camper and he shut his phone off and just never showed after I spoke with him the night before. IT goes on and on .......
I knew that if they stopped seeing him it was an easy way out for him . My son told him that he would set the times and it is MON AND THURS DADS in the driveway before son is off the school bus and back home before supper maybe a movie. He has allowed this. He threatens me about his daughter she will not see him. He has left messages BUT there is no way I would not see my daughter for a year. They are starting counseling .
Legally am I at fault???
I have been going through the divorce from hell. S/T/B/X cash business $50 a month child support for two kids. After 7 years and still not profitable enough to support the family I asked him to find employment and help with finances h e refused and left. Since then living the life of a porno star New Harley, vacations, spends 2 months in FLA in the winter , Superbowls the past 3 years, bought a beach cottage etccccc... I lost my job that had supported us through OUR goal of self employment. STUPIDLY not being involved in the business Antiques as I should of been. He had surprisingly come up with a substantial amount of $$$$ but to little to late. My credit is now junk, he has watched us almost lose the home he had lived in cash free for 17 years, file bankruptcy, go to public assistance, and spend every dime on a car that has still very short life .
He has blown his kids off repeatldly for the past two summers managed to see them very rarely. His schedule just what I know is as follows 3rd week of Jan go to the Superbowl (whereever it may be) Mardis Gras along the way, then off to Florida told my son he stays in the Keys for a week has a "show" he does there, Daytona Bike Week then on his way home in March sometime. May beach cottage is open and spends summer with his new found peers, June Bike Show in NH another week, August 3 week trip cross country to Sturgis, October Biketoberfest in Daytona. I find it hard to keep the tension out of my childrens life a daughter who is 13 and a son who is 16. They have watched him for two years.S/T/B/X MAIN INTEREST IS NOW IMPRESSING HIS NEW FOUND PEERS AS MR EXCITEMENT . Mykids hear nothing of his exciting adventures not even a shirt or postcard. They also watched a cheap , greedy "father" make a drama of any request they have asked for.
He lives with his mother who is in her 80's and a brother who is an enraged alchoholic who as s/t/b/x
never worked a 9-5 and has lived with MOM paying the bills since I have known him. The kids can not talk to him if they hit a anerve he gets angry crys whatever to avoid a subject. They know nothing about him. I wonder if they really knew what he was if they'd be impressed. My son has caught him smoking dope another issue. He has told him he smokes and has smoked ever since he was 15. I don't know why he had brought the subject up to him befor and I told him to leave my son out of his drug life and there is no reason he needs to share that with him. Well he decided to share. My son came home with a fist full of pot and asked me what it was I told him and he then told me that is what his father is smoking. Upon returning from FLA and the week before court ($50 a month) he had an auction and wanted the kids to help he would pay them$50 each and all his other schmos besides. He had also informed me he had JUST started seeing someone I had told him he should sit down with the kids and let them know not spring her on them. Well at the auction a blond came up to them and introduced herself as his girlfriend. I was called by my son to come get her she was upset no calming her down. Her father never even went to her. I picked her up and he sent my son out also to go home. He was going to take them for a long weekend. Neither want to go with him. I called to leave a voice message saying that he should talk to his daughter he picked up the phone and with an audience beside him he started yelling that he doesn't love me and to leave him alone and why did I take his daughter and son and on and on.... I have been forcing these kids to see him for two years at that point I told him I would leave it up to them.One weekend when he was suppose to take my son and had told him he had plans my I was gone that weekend my son told him I would not let him stay alone his DAD told him just to tell me he was with him he wouldn't say anything, he FORGOT to pick them up one weekend again I was away closing up our camper and he shut his phone off and just never showed after I spoke with him the night before. IT goes on and on .......
I knew that if they stopped seeing him it was an easy way out for him . My son told him that he would set the times and it is MON AND THURS DADS in the driveway before son is off the school bus and back home before supper maybe a movie. He has allowed this. He threatens me about his daughter she will not see him. He has left messages BUT there is no way I would not see my daughter for a year. They are starting counseling .
Legally am I at fault???