You don't say how long ago she left you and the children. Have you not yet filed for dissolution of the marriage? You need to get a family law attorney, file for dissolution, custody of the children, child support, and a property settlement. The proceedings will settle all the loose ends. Good luck to you and your children. Go get her!!
she left over a year ago. the reason i never filed is because i was hoping for a reconciliation. But as time goes on, it doesn`t appear that will happen. Her involvement with a married man, continues, while i`m stuck with all the finances. The biggest problem is, since i had to eat all of both of our finances, A lawyer`s fees would absolutely sink me. And she knows it! Kinda stuck....???????