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2goodgirls
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Wwe are in the middle of an ugly custody case, I have just found out that my X has made allegations against my current husb. of 8 yrs regarding my 12 and 14 yr old girls.
My husb has helped me rais them for almost 10 years now and loves them very much but X says that the girls have told him that he has gotten out of the shower naked and asked for towels and also made other remarks or statements that make them feel uncomfortable.
I have a hard time believing this, I have always tried to have a open conversation forum in our home so our girls would come to me for any question or answers and to my knowledge they have. In the course of answering questions or haveing conversations with them that they start in the hopes to keep and open line of communication I think that if my current husb. has sbeen part of them maybe the girls may feel uncomfortable, but have never said so and maybe this is what they telll their dad, but never has my current hussb. done anything inapropriate, to them or around them. The GAL says that she is also concernned. My X lives in FL and me in OH which would mean that he wants to take them away far away from me, I have 2 more children with current Husb, that will be effected by this. the girls are very adjusted and muched loved by everyone here, which includes x's family and mine, in FL they would have noone but dad and his new fiance, third wife. Now childrens services has become involved and are going to do an investigation, How can I prove that nothing has been going on and that maybe things are being said and/or being taken out of context of thow they are happening.
Please resond with advice on how to handle this, I love my hussband and do not believe this is going. I really believe that he may have been told that these are the only kind of allegations that would be considered to have the kids relocated from a stable home.
My husb has helped me rais them for almost 10 years now and loves them very much but X says that the girls have told him that he has gotten out of the shower naked and asked for towels and also made other remarks or statements that make them feel uncomfortable.
I have a hard time believing this, I have always tried to have a open conversation forum in our home so our girls would come to me for any question or answers and to my knowledge they have. In the course of answering questions or haveing conversations with them that they start in the hopes to keep and open line of communication I think that if my current husb. has sbeen part of them maybe the girls may feel uncomfortable, but have never said so and maybe this is what they telll their dad, but never has my current hussb. done anything inapropriate, to them or around them. The GAL says that she is also concernned. My X lives in FL and me in OH which would mean that he wants to take them away far away from me, I have 2 more children with current Husb, that will be effected by this. the girls are very adjusted and muched loved by everyone here, which includes x's family and mine, in FL they would have noone but dad and his new fiance, third wife. Now childrens services has become involved and are going to do an investigation, How can I prove that nothing has been going on and that maybe things are being said and/or being taken out of context of thow they are happening.
Please resond with advice on how to handle this, I love my hussband and do not believe this is going. I really believe that he may have been told that these are the only kind of allegations that would be considered to have the kids relocated from a stable home.