The current court order is for every other weekend and Wednesday evening (not sleeping over). She claims that psychiatrists maintain that it is not healthy for children to be part of a 'shared custody' situation. I actually think it is healthier because the children are with each parent an equal amount of time. The children are 6, 8 and 10 years old. We live approximately fifteen minutes from them. The situation that I envision would include her having them one week, then we have them the following week. There would be no problem getting them to school and picking them up. The children have expressed interest in living with Dad (solely) therefore a compromise *shared custody seems reasonable. An idicator that she is not receptive to the idea is that when the children bring this up to her, they are usually sent to 'time out.'