What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? WA
I have a question about apartment leases. Boy this is a mess. . .BUT my ex lives with his gf in an apartment. The gf has some issues. . .I'm in the process of getting an anti-harassment order against her. Somethings have come to light to my ex that he is angry with her over. He broke up with her Saturday night when she came home from work and asked her to leave. She left (she does have a home to go to. . .her house where her son and a tenant live). But she came back on Sunday. . .yelling and screaming (I was on the other end of the phone at the time). She told him she would just call the police and say he hit her. . .her word against his. This is where it gets messy. . .the ex is on house arrest because of some very stupid choices on his part (nothing related to dv). He can't just leave the apartment. The first thing I asked him was if she was on the lease. . .apparently she is. I told him she has a right to be there then. I guess she locked herself in the bedroom and stayed there the rest of the night. So. . .now he just called me and asked if he could stay here until his house arrest is over. . .of course he's calling whoever to see if that's possible. He is afraid to stay there with her because of her threats. He doesn't want anymore trouble. For better understanding this is how it went:
Ex: She said she'd move out on the 15th.
Me: When is the lease up?
Ex: February
Me: Well how is that going to work? Is she planning to pay her half of the rent through February. What if she doesn't move on the 15th?
Ex: Uh. . idk. . maybe I will just have to find another small apartment somewhere.
Me: But your lease isn't up til February. You would still have to pay that rent.
Ex: What?!
Me: Yeah. . .what did you think a lease meant?
Ex: Idk. . .Well should I pay Octs rent then?
Me: Yeah. . your half. Has she been paying hers?
Ex: No, I pay it all.
Me: Welllllllllll. . .if I were you. . .call your parole officer or whoever and explain the situation. See if you can move. Tell your landlord. . .I'm not going to be staying in the apartment, but here is my half of the rent for Oct. and leave it at that. Try and get some pics before you move in case she decides to trash the place.
Ex: How do I get myself in these messes?
Me in my head: Because you are a stupid idiot!
So I guess I'm wondering what happens if she doesn't pay her portion of the rent? Best case scenario is that she actually does move on the 15th and he moves back in. The apartment is only 2 blocks from my house and we have 3 children together. It works nicely for the kids. If she does move can her name be taken off the lease? I have a lot more questions, but lets just leave it at that for now. TIA
Did I give the right advice?
I have a question about apartment leases. Boy this is a mess. . .BUT my ex lives with his gf in an apartment. The gf has some issues. . .I'm in the process of getting an anti-harassment order against her. Somethings have come to light to my ex that he is angry with her over. He broke up with her Saturday night when she came home from work and asked her to leave. She left (she does have a home to go to. . .her house where her son and a tenant live). But she came back on Sunday. . .yelling and screaming (I was on the other end of the phone at the time). She told him she would just call the police and say he hit her. . .her word against his. This is where it gets messy. . .the ex is on house arrest because of some very stupid choices on his part (nothing related to dv). He can't just leave the apartment. The first thing I asked him was if she was on the lease. . .apparently she is. I told him she has a right to be there then. I guess she locked herself in the bedroom and stayed there the rest of the night. So. . .now he just called me and asked if he could stay here until his house arrest is over. . .of course he's calling whoever to see if that's possible. He is afraid to stay there with her because of her threats. He doesn't want anymore trouble. For better understanding this is how it went:
Ex: She said she'd move out on the 15th.
Me: When is the lease up?
Ex: February
Me: Well how is that going to work? Is she planning to pay her half of the rent through February. What if she doesn't move on the 15th?
Ex: Uh. . idk. . maybe I will just have to find another small apartment somewhere.
Me: But your lease isn't up til February. You would still have to pay that rent.
Ex: What?!
Me: Yeah. . .what did you think a lease meant?
Ex: Idk. . .Well should I pay Octs rent then?
Me: Yeah. . your half. Has she been paying hers?
Ex: No, I pay it all.
Me: Welllllllllll. . .if I were you. . .call your parole officer or whoever and explain the situation. See if you can move. Tell your landlord. . .I'm not going to be staying in the apartment, but here is my half of the rent for Oct. and leave it at that. Try and get some pics before you move in case she decides to trash the place.
Ex: How do I get myself in these messes?
Me in my head: Because you are a stupid idiot!
So I guess I'm wondering what happens if she doesn't pay her portion of the rent? Best case scenario is that she actually does move on the 15th and he moves back in. The apartment is only 2 blocks from my house and we have 3 children together. It works nicely for the kids. If she does move can her name be taken off the lease? I have a lot more questions, but lets just leave it at that for now. TIA
Did I give the right advice?