stealth2
Under the Radar Member
I'm sorry you closed your thread before I had a chance to reply, as I asked the questions I did for a reason.
Your resigning your job will be considered voluntary un/der-employment when it comes to calculating child support. So yes, you will be assessed based on your income in that job. "Assuming" that you did not adopt the children that are hers, you will only be responsible for supporting the child you share.
I hope you give serious thought to your plan to walk away without even minimum visitation with your child. For several reasons. Your child will then be raised the same way as your step-kids, and the only one you will realistically be able to blame for how s/he turns out will be yourself - because that will have been the fate you have chosen for your child. You will regret having a child you don't know - and will never escape the knowledge that you abandoned him/her. If/when you choose to try and get back into his/her life? You can expect to be met with hostility. And rightfully so, if I am honest. PLEASE reconsider this and opt to fight for your child.
Your resigning your job will be considered voluntary un/der-employment when it comes to calculating child support. So yes, you will be assessed based on your income in that job. "Assuming" that you did not adopt the children that are hers, you will only be responsible for supporting the child you share.
I hope you give serious thought to your plan to walk away without even minimum visitation with your child. For several reasons. Your child will then be raised the same way as your step-kids, and the only one you will realistically be able to blame for how s/he turns out will be yourself - because that will have been the fate you have chosen for your child. You will regret having a child you don't know - and will never escape the knowledge that you abandoned him/her. If/when you choose to try and get back into his/her life? You can expect to be met with hostility. And rightfully so, if I am honest. PLEASE reconsider this and opt to fight for your child.
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