newmommy20
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What is the name of your state? Florida
My fiancee and i have been together for 4 1/2 yrs and have just split. I am 7 mo. pregnant and im trying to keep him very involved, informing and inviting him to all dr. appointments giving him little updates bout how he is kicking a lot or cute little things. He has no money n hasnt gotten a thing for our son.
im kinda ok w/ that but his parents are constantly telling him to be a minimal father he is only 23 and doesnt need that responsibility. He was exited and motivated durring the first six mo. now he keeps going back and forth. should i stop being so nice? i desperately want him to be an active part of our son's life, i know what its like to not have a father and honestly if i could choose id rather not get child sup. if it meant he would be an active suportive father who shares in the parenting role. Am i skrewing myself over by involving him so much??? If i have to bear those sole burden of raising him can he really get away w/ just paying $ and seeing him on the weekends????
My fiancee and i have been together for 4 1/2 yrs and have just split. I am 7 mo. pregnant and im trying to keep him very involved, informing and inviting him to all dr. appointments giving him little updates bout how he is kicking a lot or cute little things. He has no money n hasnt gotten a thing for our son.
im kinda ok w/ that but his parents are constantly telling him to be a minimal father he is only 23 and doesnt need that responsibility. He was exited and motivated durring the first six mo. now he keeps going back and forth. should i stop being so nice? i desperately want him to be an active part of our son's life, i know what its like to not have a father and honestly if i could choose id rather not get child sup. if it meant he would be an active suportive father who shares in the parenting role. Am i skrewing myself over by involving him so much??? If i have to bear those sole burden of raising him can he really get away w/ just paying $ and seeing him on the weekends????