slander

[co35156]

What is the name of your state? TX

I am going through a divorce at this time. My husband had an affair while he was away on business for 5 months. The other woman has called him and told him I am sending her
emails saying things about him, he is now calling to harrass me. I don't know her email address nor do I care. She lives in KY, she is calling from her work # and is also sending him emails from her work saying these lies about me. I can honestly say that I am not sending her anything. I've asked him to ask her what my email address is or to forward the emails to him and him forward them to me as proof. So far I haven't recieved anything. We at one point tried to work things out but because of her, we didn't make it.
I've moved past that but I think he sometimes has issues with it. And thinks of coming back (not that I would accept him) and even though she is in KY she might be afraid of that. Can I contact her company or sue for slander(her or company)? Its causing great stess in my life on top of everything else that is going on. Please advise asap. Thanks

 

[BelizeBreeze]

What is the name of your state? TX

I am going through a divorce at this time. My husband had an affair while he was away on business for 5 months. The other woman has called him and told him I am sending her
emails saying things about him, he is now calling to harrass me. I don't know her email address nor do I care. She lives in KY, she is calling from her work # and is also sending him emails from her work saying these lies about me. I can honestly say that I am not sending her anything. I've asked him to ask her what my email address is or to forward the emails to him and him forward them to me as proof. So far I haven't recieved anything. We at one point tried to work things out but because of her, we didn't make it.
I've moved past that but I think he sometimes has issues with it. And thinks of coming back (not that I would accept him) and even though she is in KY she might be afraid of that. Can I contact her company or sue for slander(her or company)? Its causing great stess in my life on top of everything else that is going on. Please advise asap. Thanks

How has she slandered you?

And yes, you can contact her company. And open yourself up to a hell of a lawsuit.

Let the bitch stew. She is getting what she wants...to upset you.

 

[co35156]

How has she slandered you?

And yes, you can contact her company. And open yourself up to a hell of a lawsuit.

Let the bitch stew. She is getting what she wants...to upset you.

Thanks BelizeBreeze for the quick response (cool name by the way). No, she hasn't
said anything to me directly, I've never spoken to her. But she is calling and emailing my ex to complain about me emailing her. I'm not sure what exactly she is saying
I'm telling her. He didn't give me that info. I just feel helpless in this situation. I don't care what he thinks but I also don't want people thinking I'm this bitter psycho ex. I'm actually glad he out of my life.

 

[BelizeBreeze]

Thanks BelizeBreeze for the quick response (cool name by the way). No, she hasn't
said anything to me directly, I've never spoken to her. But she is calling and emailing my ex to complain about me emailing her. I'm not sure what exactly she is saying
I'm telling her. He didn't give me that info. I just feel helpless in this situation. I don't care what he thinks but I also don't want people thinking I'm this bitter psycho ex. I'm actually glad he out of my life.

Who give's a Rat's Ass what people think?

If you react she'll know she can get to you.

If your ex cared he'd do something about it. Let them have each other and get on with your life.

 

[fairisfair]

Thanks BelizeBreeze for the quick response (cool name by the way). No, she hasn't
said anything to me directly, I've never spoken to her. But she is calling and emailing my ex to complain about me emailing her. I'm not sure what exactly she is saying
I'm telling her. He didn't give me that info. I just feel helpless in this situation. I don't care what he thinks but I also don't want people thinking I'm this bitter psycho ex. I'm actually glad he out of my life.

Hmmmmm**************....now you don't call or contact her, and she doesn't call or contact you**************..only one person in the middle, with both of your email addresses**************. with a vested interest in playing you against each other**************...hmmmm

 

[nomeansno]

I had a very similar situation after my divorce. She got ahold of my email address and was sending me nasty emails. I blocked her and then...
Then she started telling him that someone was calling her house and hanging up on her. She just knew it was me, she said I was harassing her day and night. I didn't even know her full name or where she lived, just the state. I'm sure there aren't very many Tiffany's in California right?

So I pushed, and she pushed back. I started getting letters from convicts. One of the letters mentioned that my name was on the internet.

I never use my name on the internet, and had only been re-married a week or so, so I went to google and there it was on a prison pen pals site! My new married name even. There was nothing I could do, though I did play hacker and emailed the company asking them if they could tell me who posted it, they said they couldn't without a court order. So I emailed again asking what ip address I posted my information from, and they gave it to me... it was hers of course. *smile*

So... don't push, if she is crazy enough to accuse you of things she'll hang herself. Tiffany ended up getting my child support raised by $300 a month with her antics and she is no longer in the picture. And you don't want her posting your information for revenge or anything else that puts you in danger.

It's not worth it!