So Wrong....

[abstract99]

What is the name of your state? Illinois

My best friends ex boyfriend is in quite a pickle. About last November his ex wife accused HIS 14 year old daughter of molesting HER 4 year old son.

This man has 7 kids from 2 separate wives. 2 from the second, 4 and 5 I think. And 5 from the first (23,18,16,14,13). He's Mexican.

Now at first dad was there to support his daughter through the ordeal and was pressing charges against mom for false accusations and a DUI that she got while she was on her way to drop off the kids at his house.

He then proceeded to get back together with this woman and dropped all charges against her which is a big deal because from what I understand the whole story is that the mom told the 14 year old girl to lift up her shirt so that the 4 year old could see what boobs looked like. She then proceeded to allow her 4 year old to touch them.

Now mom number one wants to take dad to court for sole custody (he currently has it). Mom had some drug problems about 19 years ago but is clean now. Does she stand a shot? Would what dad did be considered bad parenting?

NOTE: He recently moved in with this woman and she will not allow his 3 kids that still live with him to stay in a normal room. All 3 of them are crammed in an unfinished basement. They are only allowed out to eat and clean from what I understand. Otherwise they have t stay downstairs and watch TV by themselves.

 

[ILOVEMYGSM3]

wow

i'd have to say that's f*'d up...he needs to find a place to stay, take his kids with him, reopen the charges, and then call cps..i know that everyone thinks that cps sux, coz i do to mostly, but he needs to take some charge, before a stranger calls, and they both end up in jail for child endangerment, among other things...not only is he in a pickle, no offense but he seems kind of dumb...mexican or not(theres a family in my h-town with 16 kids, they're WHITE) anyways...is he illegal? is that the issue? is she? and the molestation allegations...wow, that little girl is looking at a lifetime of crap...and being convicted as a ped...but he needs to seek legal counsel, and get himself and his own kids out as fast as he can...if the kids he has living with her are from another woman, i'd say she has a good shot despite her past, b/c this is his present, and his kids arent getting the things they really need, it appears...good luck to your mutual friend...

 

[Shay-Pari'e]

What is the name of your state? Illinois

My best friends ex boyfriend is in quite a pickle. About last November his ex wife accused HIS 14 year old daughter of molesting HER 4 year old son.

This man has 7 kids from 2 separate wives. 2 from the second, 4 and 5 I think. And 5 from the first (23,18,16,14,13). He's Mexican.

Now at first dad was there to support his daughter through the ordeal and was pressing charges against mom for false accusations and a DUI that she got while she was on her way to drop off the kids at his house.

He then proceeded to get back together with this woman and dropped all charges against her which is a big deal because from what I understand the whole story is that the mom told the 14 year old girl to lift up her shirt so that the 4 year old could see what boobs looked like. She then proceeded to allow her 4 year old to touch them.

Now mom number one wants to take dad to court for sole custody (he currently has it). Mom had some drug problems about 19 years ago but is clean now. Does she stand a shot? Would what dad did be considered bad parenting?

NOTE: He recently moved in with this woman and she will not allow his 3 kids that still live with him to stay in a normal room. All 3 of them are crammed in an unfinished basement. They are only allowed out to eat and clean from what I understand. Otherwise they have t stay downstairs and watch TV by themselves.

Your Best friend *X* boyfriend?


I hope you realize your post is biass, and will be picked apart from other members.

 

[Shay-Pari'e]

(QUOTE)NOTE: He recently moved in with this woman and she will not allow his 3 kids that still live with him to stay in a normal room. All 3 of them are crammed in an unfinished basement. They are only allowed out to eat and clean from what I understand. Otherwise they have t stay downstairs and watch TV by themselves.(QUOTE)


Grow Up! Call CPS yesterday!

 

[abstract99]

Oh I didn't hear this from her, there is NO bias. My friend has the decency to not gossip about other peoples business since she is no longer dating this man. I heard this from this mans son. I guess him and mom number 2 worked out some kind of deal where he dropped all charges against her and now mom number 2 (the mother of the son that told me about this) wants custody based on child endangerment. Can she get this or would it not be considered endangerment?

 

[abstract99]

Grow Up! Call CPS yesterday!

Um sorry but it would be pointless for me to call CPS because I myself have not witnessed this (not only that but I have no idea what his address is and his las name is a common latino name so it wouldn't really help) and for the son to call it would be him going agaisnt his own father which he cannot do. I was wondering what MOMS options here were.

Yes the man is a legal resident and so are his children.

but he needs to seek legal counsel, and get himself and his own kids out as fast as he can

That is the point, he has absolutly no interest in doing that. He is living with the same woman that last year accused his daughter from a different relationship of molesting her son.

 

[ILOVEMYGSM3]

oh h$ll f*ck no

heres an option YOU have
you DO NOT have to witness the abuse...you don't have to tell cps the NAME of anyone, just that someone in that home told you of this, and you are reporting on behalf of a minor...you don't even have to tell who you are...thats why its a hotline...however, i think the original mom NEEDS the kids...and i'd say someone needs to let her know, then she can take it up herself, if you're uncomfortable about it...