What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? PA
Hubby and I married over a year ago - second for both. We both have grown kids. We are both "house poor" No pre-nup (I know, STOOOOOPID). We each have our own home (his is still not ready to put on the market - needs TLC and he is still "attached" to it emotionally) but live in mine.
I made out a new will 3 months after we married to state that hubby can live in the house for 1 year after I die, but then house is to be sold and split between my 2 (adult) children. The lawyer who drew up the will said that my hubby could still file for 1/2 "entitlement" of the property (mine is paid off, his isn't) if I die as we are married. Hubby never had a will.
I spoke w/ another lawyer about this as I don't want to put the kids in "tenants in common" on the deed as they are still young (22/20) and 1 has money problems....however, she said hubby would be "entitled" to 1/3 of the property.
Yet ANOTHER lawyer said hubby would only be entited to a percentage of difference of what the house was worth when we marry and the time I die (if it was worth 300k when we married and 350k when I die, he'd be entitled to percentage of 50k)
Can anybody tell me the real scoop? Hubby refuses to sign a relinquishing rights to anything and w/ other recent 'revelations" I'm trying to save when I can for the kids.
thanks
Hubby and I married over a year ago - second for both. We both have grown kids. We are both "house poor" No pre-nup (I know, STOOOOOPID). We each have our own home (his is still not ready to put on the market - needs TLC and he is still "attached" to it emotionally) but live in mine.
I made out a new will 3 months after we married to state that hubby can live in the house for 1 year after I die, but then house is to be sold and split between my 2 (adult) children. The lawyer who drew up the will said that my hubby could still file for 1/2 "entitlement" of the property (mine is paid off, his isn't) if I die as we are married. Hubby never had a will.
I spoke w/ another lawyer about this as I don't want to put the kids in "tenants in common" on the deed as they are still young (22/20) and 1 has money problems....however, she said hubby would be "entitled" to 1/3 of the property.
Yet ANOTHER lawyer said hubby would only be entited to a percentage of difference of what the house was worth when we marry and the time I die (if it was worth 300k when we married and 350k when I die, he'd be entitled to percentage of 50k)
Can anybody tell me the real scoop? Hubby refuses to sign a relinquishing rights to anything and w/ other recent 'revelations" I'm trying to save when I can for the kids.
thanks