OldGreyMare
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? New York
My husband and I have been together for 14 years, of which we have been married the last 6 years. We have two children (ages 12 and 9) together, both born out of wedlock and he has acknowledged paternity for both. He has claimed me and my son (from a previous marriage) on his Federal and State withholds while we were living together and not yet married. 8 years ago he purchased a house and we moved in. This past April he moved out of the house and I immediately filed for custody of the two children that I had with him. We went to court and my husband agreed to give me full custody and he took visitation and we both agreed that visitation would be as both parties agreed, and the judge granted the same. My son goes every weekend but my daughter refuses to got and breaks out in tears everytime she thinks she has to go with him.
Early today I told my husband to pick up my son on Friday night as I am leaving early Saturday morning. He told me NO, he will be here Saturday and I told him that the kids will not be here then. He then demanded to know where I was going and who would be looking after his kids. I told him they would be with me and he again demanded to know where I was going and I refused to tell him.
My husband is now threatening to throw me out of the house saying that it's his house and also that he can take the children when ever he wants. He says that if he comes up Saturday and I'm not here he will change the locks and keep me out. He also stated that he can move back in any time he wants since it's his house.
Is all of what he said is true?
My husband and I have been together for 14 years, of which we have been married the last 6 years. We have two children (ages 12 and 9) together, both born out of wedlock and he has acknowledged paternity for both. He has claimed me and my son (from a previous marriage) on his Federal and State withholds while we were living together and not yet married. 8 years ago he purchased a house and we moved in. This past April he moved out of the house and I immediately filed for custody of the two children that I had with him. We went to court and my husband agreed to give me full custody and he took visitation and we both agreed that visitation would be as both parties agreed, and the judge granted the same. My son goes every weekend but my daughter refuses to got and breaks out in tears everytime she thinks she has to go with him.
Early today I told my husband to pick up my son on Friday night as I am leaving early Saturday morning. He told me NO, he will be here Saturday and I told him that the kids will not be here then. He then demanded to know where I was going and who would be looking after his kids. I told him they would be with me and he again demanded to know where I was going and I refused to tell him.
My husband is now threatening to throw me out of the house saying that it's his house and also that he can take the children when ever he wants. He says that if he comes up Saturday and I'm not here he will change the locks and keep me out. He also stated that he can move back in any time he wants since it's his house.
Is all of what he said is true?