What is the name of your state? Pennsylvania, Philadelphia
My mother is abusing my funds, she is making PayPal charges on my account. These charges are sporadic from what I can see. She also admitted to making an charge thru PayPal to pay for malware bytes an anti malware software for PC, when I asked her that I'd like to benefit from that as well she told me that if I don't like it I can leave. I can't become my own representative payee because of her refusal to cooperate with me to pay my part of the utilities in the home she refuses to let me do so if my funds and my account become independent and out from her control. I am also unable to effectively store to refrigerate my own food resorting to nonperishables since November of last year. The house is crowded, she now has 2 refrigerators setup plus an chest freezer and expresses reluctance for me to use them as well as an appliances to cook my food. She refuses to communicate with me to budget food with me so that I can fairly contribute to food in the house. My mother takes 200 dollars out of my account for utilities, I ask for transparency in this because of an break in trust to ensure that this is the same across the board with her and my 3 siblings who are also on social security whom my siblings are also beneficiaries under my mother with her being representative payee, she refuses. She has now blocked me from using internet which is part of the utilities that I'm paying, she took 300 instead of 200 out of my account this month.
She took 100 dollars out of my account (I found out she used this to buy boxes to packup belongings to leave her boyfriend's house, I was not living at her boyfriend's house at the time) when she sparked an disagreement with me (she also exhibited this behavior after an heated session of family therapy this week by making 4 sets of PayPal charges on my account) when confronted about this she did not say why was condescending about it and refused to say why. I opened up another account to put my money in as suggested by an friend/acquaintance my mother retaliated by shutting off my cellphone which was on an at&t family plan that I had just paid an 100 dollars to. I could not keep this account open as she threatened to close the joint account that has my SSI deposited into as I was trying to work and figure out things to become my own representative payee.
The home is not her name or owned by her it is my grandmother's house. The bills are in my grandmother's name as well as the account she deposits money in for the utilities that once had my grandmother's finances being deposited into the account but is no longer. My grandmother is in New Jersey, she suffers from alzheimers and dementia. My mother has Durable POA signed in 2014 but my uncle has gotten POA 4 years later enacted in August 2018.
I am under extreme emotional distress with anxiety and stomach pains, chest pains and depression. I have contacted the office of inspector general and city officials and still working on obtaining an legal representative. Looking for any and all advice that I can get.
My mother is abusing my funds, she is making PayPal charges on my account. These charges are sporadic from what I can see. She also admitted to making an charge thru PayPal to pay for malware bytes an anti malware software for PC, when I asked her that I'd like to benefit from that as well she told me that if I don't like it I can leave. I can't become my own representative payee because of her refusal to cooperate with me to pay my part of the utilities in the home she refuses to let me do so if my funds and my account become independent and out from her control. I am also unable to effectively store to refrigerate my own food resorting to nonperishables since November of last year. The house is crowded, she now has 2 refrigerators setup plus an chest freezer and expresses reluctance for me to use them as well as an appliances to cook my food. She refuses to communicate with me to budget food with me so that I can fairly contribute to food in the house. My mother takes 200 dollars out of my account for utilities, I ask for transparency in this because of an break in trust to ensure that this is the same across the board with her and my 3 siblings who are also on social security whom my siblings are also beneficiaries under my mother with her being representative payee, she refuses. She has now blocked me from using internet which is part of the utilities that I'm paying, she took 300 instead of 200 out of my account this month.
She took 100 dollars out of my account (I found out she used this to buy boxes to packup belongings to leave her boyfriend's house, I was not living at her boyfriend's house at the time) when she sparked an disagreement with me (she also exhibited this behavior after an heated session of family therapy this week by making 4 sets of PayPal charges on my account) when confronted about this she did not say why was condescending about it and refused to say why. I opened up another account to put my money in as suggested by an friend/acquaintance my mother retaliated by shutting off my cellphone which was on an at&t family plan that I had just paid an 100 dollars to. I could not keep this account open as she threatened to close the joint account that has my SSI deposited into as I was trying to work and figure out things to become my own representative payee.
The home is not her name or owned by her it is my grandmother's house. The bills are in my grandmother's name as well as the account she deposits money in for the utilities that once had my grandmother's finances being deposited into the account but is no longer. My grandmother is in New Jersey, she suffers from alzheimers and dementia. My mother has Durable POA signed in 2014 but my uncle has gotten POA 4 years later enacted in August 2018.
I am under extreme emotional distress with anxiety and stomach pains, chest pains and depression. I have contacted the office of inspector general and city officials and still working on obtaining an legal representative. Looking for any and all advice that I can get.
