Re: "personal service"
zinnie101 said:
I don't think she'd be stupid enough to provide me her personal information such as current address. I called court and they said that I can use a "personal service" for someone to hand deliver paper work to her at work. What do they mean by "personal service" and how does this process work?
Besides fees cost for filing, what other $ can I sue her for? Apparently I was told I can't sue her for lost wages just because I have to take off a day to go to court.
My response:
It's up to you to discover her residence address. I gave you two methods - - and there are even more - - but, not even a lousy "thank you" for that, or the other information I provided to you.
Personal service companies are staffed by people who take your court documents and "personally" hand your documents to the defendant. Sure, you can have her served at work. But, what happens when she quits? How will you locate her? The Personal Service company can also run a "locate" for an extra fee to find her current address.
Now you're asking, "Why can't I just hand the papers to her myself? Why must I pay to have someone else do what I can do?"
Since you are a litigant, the laws in most jurisdictions want to make sure that the defendant was properly served by someone who doesn't have an interest in the case, and who doesn't have a motive for lying. It would, therefore, be a conflict of interest if you were allowed to serve her yourself.
You don't necessarily need a Personal Service company. All you need to effectuate service of process is to have anyone, over the age of 18, serve her with the papers, and to fill out and sign a "Proof of Service" form. Then, you take that form and file it with the court.
Good luck to you.
IAAL