Stealing,lying,druggy X friend has my/Kid's stuff

[Fed.Up.&.Hurt!]

HELP< HELP< HELP!!!!!!!
I stupidly befriended a person who does drugs. I looked the other way at times because I thought I could change her ways in time. My husband and I have helped her so many times. From doing her wash so that her 11 yr. old would have clean closes for school, to LOANING her things from our home to help her out (ie: WET VAC).
Well one day I had to ask her to return one of the countless favors I've done for her. After that I lost my job because of her, she refuses to return our property, and she has spred very terrible lies about me. I have a lot of proof of her drug selling activities, and can also blow the wistle on a lot of people she sells to. Including her sister who is a NURSE at the local hospital! WHAT SHOULD/CAN I DO???????
Thanks For Your Time,

Fed.Up.

 

[JETX]

Since you posted this to the small claims forum, I assume your asking 'what can I do' pertains to litigation.

The answer is really 'nothing'. You admit that this person is a "stealing, lying, druggy". That won't change if you get a judgment.

A lot of people assume that the court can force the person to pay a judgment (sort of expect a check on the way out the door). Regretably, that isn't the case. You will need to enforce your judgment. The courts will help by putting some legal power behind you, but you will be in the front and have to take the action yourself.

So, lets assume you get a judgment against this person (and based solely on your post, I see little legal liability that she has to you), what are the chances of your ever collecting from her?? Sounds like somewhere between zero and none, from your description.

So, what other remedies can you pursue.
Certainly, you can shut this person out of your life and never let yourself get involved with her problems. To me, this is the best solution and just get on with your life. However, if you absolutely insist on getting revenge (not a pretty trait), you can certainly 'drop a dime' and call the police with your information. This would ruin a LOT of lives, including the 11 year old who would get the 'thrill and excitement' of jail visits. What you do is your choice... and your conscience.