What is the name of your state? COLORADO
My ex is in the process of taking me to court to gain physical custody of our daughter. I was given physical custody nearly 3 years ago, and being that I will not agree to him having physical custody now that child is nearing school age, Ex is wanting me to sign a parenting plan he has come up with -- He has a part in here, that I don't feel needs to be included -- This issue is between me and my ex, not wanting to include step-mom into this at all... but he wants me to sign something agreeing to the following: PARENT, STEPPARENT. AND FAMILY
The Parents are to refrain from encouraging or engaging ANY other person to
Harass, annoy, strike with hand or object, threaten, assault, verbally abuse or molest the other Parent or Stepparent, in an attempt to alarm, coerce, anger, or frighten either Party in any manner or at any time whatsoever.
The Parents are to refrain from making negative statements about other Parent, Stepparent or other Parents’ family or household, in the presence of said child, and shall not allow ANY other person to make negative statements about other Parent, Stepparent or other parents’ family or household, in the presence of said child. The Parents shall not use said child or any other person, except a designated messenger, to deliver any messages to the other Party.
The Parents to refrain from attempting to coerce said child into false or negative beliefs about, negative or abusive behavior toward, or attempt to alienate said child from the other Parent, Stepparent or other Parents’ family or household, and shall not attempt to foster a lack of love or care for the other Parent, Stepparent or other Parents’ family or household, in any way whatsoever.
A Stepparent, for the purposes of this Court Order, shall be considered
Any person who is married to a Parent
Any person who has been cohabiting with a Parent for a period of one and one half or more years.
Stepparents of said child shall have the right to transport said child for any reason including but not limited to;
Parenting time, Holidays, Special Day and Vacation/break Time, school, daycare, activities or trips, or to provide any other transportation required in the parenting care of said child.
Stepparents shall have the right to share and access any and all information including, but not limited to;
Any school official or other authority or agency, physician, counselor, psychiatrist, psychologist, health care professional, activity supervisor, friend, relative or any other person concerned with the health and well-being of said child, for the purposes of providing said child with proper care and supervision.
Stepparents shall have the right to seek any and all regular and emergency medical care for said child under the guidelines of this Order, and to consent to such care, to the extent that the law allows, should the need arise.
Stepparents shall have any and all rights to touch, hold, carry, dress, feed, bathe, make purchases for, administer necessary medications to, and discipline said child within the guidelines of this Order, with the implied consent of the Parent residing in that home.
Stepparents shall have the right to receive and initiate telephonic and written communication with said child without interference from any person, with the implied consent of the Parent residing in that home.
Stepparents shall be considered responsible and acceptable Parenting figures in the eyes of the Parents, with the implied consent of the Parent residing in that home.
Stepparents shall be allowed and encouraged to attend any and all meetings or conferences including, but not limited to; meetings and conferences between the Parents, caregivers, caretakers and authorities pertaining to said child, with the implied consent of the Parent residing in that home.
Stepparents shall have any and all rights in association with their stepchild, that are legally allowed, whether expressed or implied, with the implied consent of the Parent residing in that home.
Each Parent and/or Stepparent shall have the right to visit or interact with said child, while said child is not directly in the care of the other Parent. This includes, but is not limited to;
Any and all times said child might be in daycare or any other form of child-care, in the hospital, participating in any activities outside the home including school activities, child-care or daycare activities or on field trips or learning trips arranged by any organization or person other than the other Parent.
Sorry it is so long -- I advised him that I would agree to parts of this (like the transporatation helpout) but not all of it, he says i have to agree to it all, or when we go to court the judge will order it anyways...
Would a judge really grant this ? I didn't think Step-Parents had these types of rights... ?
My ex is in the process of taking me to court to gain physical custody of our daughter. I was given physical custody nearly 3 years ago, and being that I will not agree to him having physical custody now that child is nearing school age, Ex is wanting me to sign a parenting plan he has come up with -- He has a part in here, that I don't feel needs to be included -- This issue is between me and my ex, not wanting to include step-mom into this at all... but he wants me to sign something agreeing to the following: PARENT, STEPPARENT. AND FAMILY
The Parents are to refrain from encouraging or engaging ANY other person to
Harass, annoy, strike with hand or object, threaten, assault, verbally abuse or molest the other Parent or Stepparent, in an attempt to alarm, coerce, anger, or frighten either Party in any manner or at any time whatsoever.
The Parents are to refrain from making negative statements about other Parent, Stepparent or other Parents’ family or household, in the presence of said child, and shall not allow ANY other person to make negative statements about other Parent, Stepparent or other parents’ family or household, in the presence of said child. The Parents shall not use said child or any other person, except a designated messenger, to deliver any messages to the other Party.
The Parents to refrain from attempting to coerce said child into false or negative beliefs about, negative or abusive behavior toward, or attempt to alienate said child from the other Parent, Stepparent or other Parents’ family or household, and shall not attempt to foster a lack of love or care for the other Parent, Stepparent or other Parents’ family or household, in any way whatsoever.
A Stepparent, for the purposes of this Court Order, shall be considered
Any person who is married to a Parent
Any person who has been cohabiting with a Parent for a period of one and one half or more years.
Stepparents of said child shall have the right to transport said child for any reason including but not limited to;
Parenting time, Holidays, Special Day and Vacation/break Time, school, daycare, activities or trips, or to provide any other transportation required in the parenting care of said child.
Stepparents shall have the right to share and access any and all information including, but not limited to;
Any school official or other authority or agency, physician, counselor, psychiatrist, psychologist, health care professional, activity supervisor, friend, relative or any other person concerned with the health and well-being of said child, for the purposes of providing said child with proper care and supervision.
Stepparents shall have the right to seek any and all regular and emergency medical care for said child under the guidelines of this Order, and to consent to such care, to the extent that the law allows, should the need arise.
Stepparents shall have any and all rights to touch, hold, carry, dress, feed, bathe, make purchases for, administer necessary medications to, and discipline said child within the guidelines of this Order, with the implied consent of the Parent residing in that home.
Stepparents shall have the right to receive and initiate telephonic and written communication with said child without interference from any person, with the implied consent of the Parent residing in that home.
Stepparents shall be considered responsible and acceptable Parenting figures in the eyes of the Parents, with the implied consent of the Parent residing in that home.
Stepparents shall be allowed and encouraged to attend any and all meetings or conferences including, but not limited to; meetings and conferences between the Parents, caregivers, caretakers and authorities pertaining to said child, with the implied consent of the Parent residing in that home.
Stepparents shall have any and all rights in association with their stepchild, that are legally allowed, whether expressed or implied, with the implied consent of the Parent residing in that home.
Each Parent and/or Stepparent shall have the right to visit or interact with said child, while said child is not directly in the care of the other Parent. This includes, but is not limited to;
Any and all times said child might be in daycare or any other form of child-care, in the hospital, participating in any activities outside the home including school activities, child-care or daycare activities or on field trips or learning trips arranged by any organization or person other than the other Parent.
Sorry it is so long -- I advised him that I would agree to parts of this (like the transporatation helpout) but not all of it, he says i have to agree to it all, or when we go to court the judge will order it anyways...
Would a judge really grant this ? I didn't think Step-Parents had these types of rights... ?