debbie12202
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? Texas
My fiance and I were planning to marry in August. A month ago he moved in with me. I've since learned that he suffers from bipolar disorder and he has disappeared in a manic episode and has been missing for over a week. The law enforcement officers are telling me that we are married by common law because we were cohabitating under the same roof. They are telling me that because they consider me to be common law that all of my property - i.e vehicle, home, etc. now is joint property. Thus, since they view my property as joint, they can do nothing about my missing paid off van. Now besides being concerned about my missing fiance and his mental state, I am now concerned about these other issues as well.
We never presented ourselves as man and wife. We planned to marry in a civil ceremony in August. My understanding prior was that there is a minimum time period in which couples had to cohabitate and they had to present themselves as man and wife. Also my understanding prior was that any property that a person brought to a marriage in Texas was still that person's property if they left the marriage.
What are the laws regarding common law marriage in Texas? What are the laws about joint property? Specifically, if I have been paying on my mortgage for 12 + years, is what the Sherriff's Department telling me true that because my fiance lived with me for 1 month that my home and my van are now joint property? The Sherriff's Department is also telling me that I need to go to the judge and prove that my home is mine and file an eviction notice in order to protect my property from my fiance's irresponsible financial behavior through a joint chekcing account opened in anticipation of our marriage. Is this true?
I contacted an attorney regarding these questions and I was only told that a judge would have to make a decision.
Thank you for any information you can provide.
My fiance and I were planning to marry in August. A month ago he moved in with me. I've since learned that he suffers from bipolar disorder and he has disappeared in a manic episode and has been missing for over a week. The law enforcement officers are telling me that we are married by common law because we were cohabitating under the same roof. They are telling me that because they consider me to be common law that all of my property - i.e vehicle, home, etc. now is joint property. Thus, since they view my property as joint, they can do nothing about my missing paid off van. Now besides being concerned about my missing fiance and his mental state, I am now concerned about these other issues as well.
We never presented ourselves as man and wife. We planned to marry in a civil ceremony in August. My understanding prior was that there is a minimum time period in which couples had to cohabitate and they had to present themselves as man and wife. Also my understanding prior was that any property that a person brought to a marriage in Texas was still that person's property if they left the marriage.
What are the laws regarding common law marriage in Texas? What are the laws about joint property? Specifically, if I have been paying on my mortgage for 12 + years, is what the Sherriff's Department telling me true that because my fiance lived with me for 1 month that my home and my van are now joint property? The Sherriff's Department is also telling me that I need to go to the judge and prove that my home is mine and file an eviction notice in order to protect my property from my fiance's irresponsible financial behavior through a joint chekcing account opened in anticipation of our marriage. Is this true?
I contacted an attorney regarding these questions and I was only told that a judge would have to make a decision.
Thank you for any information you can provide.
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