Thank You to everyone for great advice

[HOPENDEN]

What is the name of your state? NJ
Good Morning to everyone. I started on this site a little over a year ago and each and everyone of you have helped me with my issues, yes there were things that I did not want to hear and there were things that I did not want to accept, but with the honesty and the plain hard truth and facts, it helped me grow and mature.

This years visitation w/ dad is going so smoothly, for the first time in years my heart did not go with the children and for this I thank each and everyone of you for helping me realize that the NCP is just as important and that it is my job to enforce visitation whether the children wants to or not. I have been able to send my children on a positive note and go figure because of my change in attitude, I have already heard from my children 5 times and they just left on Monday. Dad and I were finally civil to each other on the phone last night and we both were able to act like parents and not butt heads and the children really appreciated that.

Once again thank you to all of you for your fair and sound advice.

 

[stealth2]

That's really good to hear. I bet you also feel a lot better - the anger and bitterness have a way of eating you up as well.

 

[HOPENDEN]

Yes Stealth you are so correct. I only wished that I learned this years ago, it would have saved me thousands of dollars and prevented me from having so many sleepless nights and severe heartburn. I only hope that other people that come to this sight for advice will use and not take it personally when the truth is told.

 

[Silverplum]

Wonderful news! Thank you so much for coming back and congratulations on your success! {5-smilies = 5-star rating!}