thanks

[jerseybird]

i was hoping for help, not jokes,..his wife is dead,... how can i leave with no money?..that was the point,..can i have some real advice?!

 

[HomeGuru]

I gave you real advice. Take it or leave it. I heard of a jersey cow but a bird?

 

[Wgoodrich]

YOu might apply with family services, welfare, twp trustees, for emergency help. They may put you into another apartment somewhere for maybe one month to get you started again. Do not stay there you are just burying yourself deeper into dependancy of you man helper that isn't helping. If you get some help from a govenment agency then get a job and rebuild.

Without anything in writing of him accepting responsibility for you, I see no recourse you have against the man. You took the chance and got surprised with a life style many times different from what you expected. This is a common failure especially between man and woman and seems to be getting much more pevelant in the email/internet chat rooms. People are going west for happiness and finding grief. Stand on your own and bite the bullett. Check with government emergency help for a short term fix. Might help.

Good Luck

Wg

 

[jerseybird]

thank you, wgoodrich

thank you for your reply,...i wish being surprised by a different lifestle was the case,.....this person lied about everything,...... took it all back everything he said.the state might think i made a bad choice and see me as unstable,.i was warned about that.but my intentions were sincere.