What is the name of your state?
Michigan.
At the Pre-Trial Settlement Hearing, the Judge told both my stbx's atty and my atty that he would QDRO (Qualified Domestic Relations Order) the entire amount of the difference between my wifes retirement (8K) and my retirement (51k), therefore, my stbx would have to take (43k / 2 = 21.5k).
This throws a major monkey wrench into the stalemate, mostly for my stbx, since she really needs cold hard cash, whereas I don't care either way. Since I was going to owe her about 10k WITH the Retirement Money being counted as a negotiable asset, the Judge's decision would mean that my stbx would have to take the 21.5k in retirement difference and PAY ME (somehow?) 11.5k?! Needless to say, she was devasted by this news, I told her repeatedly it wasn't a good idea for her to quit negotiating with me on May 3rd (over 2 months ago), she was being stubborn in my opinion.
The judge's reasoning for the QDRO made sense to me, since I was claiming ownership for 32k in credit card debt (ALL is in my name), my stbx would be by in large, splitting the 32k down the middle.
If my calculations are roughly close, extracting cash from a retirement account of 21.5k will be subject to the 10% early extract penalty + 28% in fed taxes on the spot + 6.2% for State Taxes, which is 44%, leaving only 12k of cash after the transaction is done. At that point, my stbx would still have to pay me 11.5k, which in effect, leaves her with .5k, next to nothing.
It appears I have the upper hand in negotiations at this point, and she is in a precarious position, perhaps she has finally been awakened after her near 7 month irresponsibility slumber?
Looking for some input on what to do at the next bargaining session, any input would be appreciated. I should also point out that her atty is holding about 14k of a HELOC of mine as well that I'm none to pleased about, I've already made 2 payments on this debt's interest.
Thanks so much,
bd.
Michigan.
At the Pre-Trial Settlement Hearing, the Judge told both my stbx's atty and my atty that he would QDRO (Qualified Domestic Relations Order) the entire amount of the difference between my wifes retirement (8K) and my retirement (51k), therefore, my stbx would have to take (43k / 2 = 21.5k).
This throws a major monkey wrench into the stalemate, mostly for my stbx, since she really needs cold hard cash, whereas I don't care either way. Since I was going to owe her about 10k WITH the Retirement Money being counted as a negotiable asset, the Judge's decision would mean that my stbx would have to take the 21.5k in retirement difference and PAY ME (somehow?) 11.5k?! Needless to say, she was devasted by this news, I told her repeatedly it wasn't a good idea for her to quit negotiating with me on May 3rd (over 2 months ago), she was being stubborn in my opinion.
The judge's reasoning for the QDRO made sense to me, since I was claiming ownership for 32k in credit card debt (ALL is in my name), my stbx would be by in large, splitting the 32k down the middle.
If my calculations are roughly close, extracting cash from a retirement account of 21.5k will be subject to the 10% early extract penalty + 28% in fed taxes on the spot + 6.2% for State Taxes, which is 44%, leaving only 12k of cash after the transaction is done. At that point, my stbx would still have to pay me 11.5k, which in effect, leaves her with .5k, next to nothing.
It appears I have the upper hand in negotiations at this point, and she is in a precarious position, perhaps she has finally been awakened after her near 7 month irresponsibility slumber?
Looking for some input on what to do at the next bargaining session, any input would be appreciated. I should also point out that her atty is holding about 14k of a HELOC of mine as well that I'm none to pleased about, I've already made 2 payments on this debt's interest.
Thanks so much,
bd.