I'm in Ohio. This is a very frustrating situation and I hope someone can help me with it. Since my sister, whom this case involves, doesn't have internet access she has asked me to help her get all the information she can. Ok here's the situation. April 2002 my sister filed for divorce from her husband of 3 years. They had two very small children at the time, the youngest was barely 4 months old. During their marriage several of us witnessed him abusing both of the children. When they were divorcing he kidnapped the children and left them alone with his father who was intoxicated and passed out. Both where in dire need of diaper changing and feeding when my sister armed with a CPO retrieved them from the apartment. When they went to court this man was given visitation rights. The first one he arranged he did not show up to pick them up and then he never made arrangements again. He didn't even show up for their final court hearing. He never contacted her or any of us for 14 months at which point her attorney told her that she was under no obligation to respond to his call since it fell well beyond the statute. When she asked if she needed to file abandonment on her ex her attorney said no it was not necessary. Then her ex started showing up at family members houses and then finally my sisters house. He watched the house prior to knocking on the door, waiting for her new husband to leave her and the children alone. My sister called the police but, he left before they arrived. A month ago she received a summons to a contempt hearing. Her ex is claiming that his recent attempts to exercise his visitation were actually attempts made before the statute ran out!! He's an unstable individual who kicked this baby's basinet and screamed in her face at 2 weeks old!! He made his choice by not contacting my sister and now a Magistrate is trying to make my sister allow him to take the children for visits when those children now 4 and 2 do not know him!! Is there anything we can do to stop this before it causes emotional damage to these children?