Thanks, IAAL!
If I understood correctly, then all persons who are ordered to pay support remain totally responsible for getting the support to the recipient; and the person who is to receive support can only seek a remedy through the courts by suing the person who is to pay support.
MY RESPONSE: You understood correctly, and that's right - - but only when CSE is unable to perform.
If CSE is not attempting to collect the support, then what?
MY RESPONSE: Remember, CSE is a "benefit". As a state agency, and not unlike all state agencies, their work depends on State funds, tax dollars. Name me one agency of any state that has an abundance of dollars! Remember, people keep having babies and keep getting divorced. There's more of them than there are state employees working for CSE. They can only do "so much" with limited funds, and not enough employees. So, basically, it's not the State's fault that people are having babies without support. As beneficiaries of a "free service", if Momma Bear can't get her money, then Momma Bear can go to court on her own - - and pay for the privilege. CSE attempts to help the worst case scenarios because they need the most help - - and it's those cases that are the one clogging the system!
can't ryry's mom take it away from CSE and simply keep going to court asking the defendant to 'show cause' each time he is delinquent over a certain amount?
MY RESPONSE: Well she, like any other mother, can certainly request that support be removed from CSE but, it's not likely to happen. Once ordered into the system, it takes an act of Congress to get out. But, whether in or out of the system, any mother can take the matter into court herself on an Order to Show Cause Re: Contempt of the Court Order.
can she get a order that states if he is X amount in arrears, then all she has to do is show the sheriff and her ex would be arrested for contempt?
MY RESPONSE: No. Remember, child support, etc. is a Civil matter. Police cannot enforce Civil matters. It only become "Quasi Criminal" in nature when the court finds the non-custodial parent in Contempt of the order - - and then can fine, or jail, or both, the Contemnor.
ryry's mom is in the same situation as a lot of others; her ex is apparently willing to starve to death and live in motel rent-by-the-week apartments to keep from paying support; and, she ain't never gonna get a penny from him.
MY RESPONSE: Well, first of all, "cry me a river" for Ryry. That's not anyone's fault but hers. You can't squeeze blood from a "turnip,". All that can be done is to keep throwing him in jail with Bubba until such time as it sinks into his "school dropout" brain of his that, "maybe this isn't so much fun after all "
Maybe she can get his rear in jail where he can get two or three meals a day, but I doubt he ever complies with the court's orders or with what is morally right in supporting his children.
MY RESPONSE: Can't help that. Read the above response. What can I tell ya?
In the meantime, she's gonna worry herself into premature gray hair and a nervous breakdown over this man.
MY RESPONSE: Gee, that really breaks my heart.
I keep trying to tell her.......'cause I like her!... Let the SOB rot and enjoy the great hubby she has now! Hubby is taking care of the kids; they aren't homeless or starving.
MY RESPONSE: Gee, a happy ending. Maybe Ryry learned a lesson - - Marry someone with an education and money. She must have grown up.
IAAL