What is the name of your state? anoyance
I felt this still needed to be said...
it was the combo of...
"I have a 9 year old son that I am wanting to get custody of"
"we have shared custody, but she has "Primary Residence". "
" I am not wanting to remove his Mom from Custody, my wife and I just want him to live with us full time"
"She is about to hit me up for a huge child support increase."
"his Mom is a good mom, but he deserves to be happy with us"
...that did the trick.
Sorry but it sounds like your child is in need of a theripist(you might benifit from one too) You sound like your biggest problem is resentment twards step-dad, which you have every right to have, however you need to stop letting your son *feed* off of it...It can be very damaging to a child for them to know that you dislike someone that much. Unfortunatly it also sounds like it might be too late to fix some damage already done...I mean WOW you have berad enough hate for this man that it is carrying over to the child's sister
I felt this still needed to be said...
it was the combo of...
"I have a 9 year old son that I am wanting to get custody of"
"we have shared custody, but she has "Primary Residence". "
" I am not wanting to remove his Mom from Custody, my wife and I just want him to live with us full time"
"She is about to hit me up for a huge child support increase."
"his Mom is a good mom, but he deserves to be happy with us"
...that did the trick.
Sorry but it sounds like your child is in need of a theripist(you might benifit from one too) You sound like your biggest problem is resentment twards step-dad, which you have every right to have, however you need to stop letting your son *feed* off of it...It can be very damaging to a child for them to know that you dislike someone that much. Unfortunatly it also sounds like it might be too late to fix some damage already done...I mean WOW you have berad enough hate for this man that it is carrying over to the child's sister