You are playing the "debt elimination" defense. Personally, I don't believe it works. Banks lend real money. The argument you are making does not do anything constructive for you.
So, I am certainly not the right person to give advice on how to execute the defense you are wanting to use.
Perhaps caliber or mamaluna would help you. Check other messages here on this board and you might find an email address or be able to send them a private message.
By the way, God invented punctuation and sentence construction so it would be easier to understand what you wrote. It is a little hard to follow.