jdnewyork10019
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? NY
I received an item that I had bought online. Without getting into unnecessary details, the transaction was not smooth and the seller proved to be untrustworthy in some respects. However, it would have been a case of All's Well That Ends Well were it not for the fact that in the same package as the ordered and paid-for item was included another item I had not ordered and a message requesting that I either send the latter's purchase price or return it.
Under FTC rules, such unordered merchandise is to be considered a gift and I am not obligated to either pay for it or return it. However, being a decent person and not wanting the unordered item, I e-mailed its sender a reminder of the relevant FTC rule along with an offer to return him the unordered item provided he would send me within a month a specified dollar amount as compensation for its handling and shipping. He replied by e-mail the same day saying he would send the payment that very day. It was a while ago, although the one-month deadline has not expired yet, and I never received it.
I now believe I may have made two mistakes: first, I should have reminded the seller of FTC rules by certified mail w/ return receipt instead of by e-mail; second, I should not have offered to return the item at all, not only because this was not an honest mistake on his part, but also because I am now still entangled with someone I would rather have had nothing more to do with.
My questions:
1. Should I, as a precautionary measure, send the seller a copy of my e-mail to him but by certified mail this time? Should I sign this e-mail or send it as is? Or should I compose a new letter mentioning the FTC rule?
2. Can I withdraw my offer to return the item (and obviously return any shipping & handling payment I may receive subsequently), or am I now legally bound to wait until the deadline I gave him?
3. What are my risks at this point? In other words, what other tricks or abusive tactics can such a dishonest seller come up with at this point concerning this matter?
Thank you in advance for your reply.
I received an item that I had bought online. Without getting into unnecessary details, the transaction was not smooth and the seller proved to be untrustworthy in some respects. However, it would have been a case of All's Well That Ends Well were it not for the fact that in the same package as the ordered and paid-for item was included another item I had not ordered and a message requesting that I either send the latter's purchase price or return it.
Under FTC rules, such unordered merchandise is to be considered a gift and I am not obligated to either pay for it or return it. However, being a decent person and not wanting the unordered item, I e-mailed its sender a reminder of the relevant FTC rule along with an offer to return him the unordered item provided he would send me within a month a specified dollar amount as compensation for its handling and shipping. He replied by e-mail the same day saying he would send the payment that very day. It was a while ago, although the one-month deadline has not expired yet, and I never received it.
I now believe I may have made two mistakes: first, I should have reminded the seller of FTC rules by certified mail w/ return receipt instead of by e-mail; second, I should not have offered to return the item at all, not only because this was not an honest mistake on his part, but also because I am now still entangled with someone I would rather have had nothing more to do with.
My questions:
1. Should I, as a precautionary measure, send the seller a copy of my e-mail to him but by certified mail this time? Should I sign this e-mail or send it as is? Or should I compose a new letter mentioning the FTC rule?
2. Can I withdraw my offer to return the item (and obviously return any shipping & handling payment I may receive subsequently), or am I now legally bound to wait until the deadline I gave him?
3. What are my risks at this point? In other words, what other tricks or abusive tactics can such a dishonest seller come up with at this point concerning this matter?
Thank you in advance for your reply.