Tweety14 said:
Thank you anyway.That is a nice site for Texas. I wish they had sites for every state.
You can know any person better than they know themselves, if you are willing to spend the time. It is always best to do it yourself, so you have exactly what you want. The info from the "detective" search firms you refer to is available to anybody through the FIA (freedom of information Act). You are just paying somebody to do the legwork.
It is an art, just like anything else....the more you search, the better you become at searching. Many states (not all) have online searches at their city/county/state/ websites.
This for example, is just a few in Colorado. (not your state, but will give you ideas where they are usually found)
http://www.sctc.state.co.us/marriages/default.aspx marriage records
http://www.sctc.state.co.us/marriages/divorces.aspx divorce records
http://www.denvergov.org/court/courtselect.asp county court cases
https://www.cbirecordscheck.com/Index.asp criminal history $6.85
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Here are a few resources that will get you started:
http://www.netronline.com/public_records.htm public records by state
http://www.brbpub.com/pubrecsites.asp index of free pub records *
http://www.gao.gov/special.pubs/soi/soi_ch5.htm sources on the net **
http://www.fletc.gov/legal/investigatorweblinks.htm weblinks page
Just a thought to consider:
Many people, especially my ex, think they have hidden many things from me.(most of it being info that should be...and would be shared by honest people). This is what people with poor character do....lie,cheat,hide and deceive others...it is a lifestyle for them. As for the people mentioned above where I have been the target....each of them still believes today, that they were successful in every case. I will continue to ensure they do, although I know the truth in every instance.
Why not expose them? Get even, and prove they are liars? I am not on an Ego trip, not a stalker, and they already know they are liars. I want what I need to parent and protect my daughter....the truth....that is all. I could destroy my ex socially, emotionally, and legally. This might be fun doing to the ex....but not to my daughter's mother, which she needs.
I only retrieve what is necessary to deal with an issue, never anything for curiousity or positioning with the ex. If I was interested in the ex's life, I would still be married to her.
Becoming proficient in covert "spy" techniques sounds cool, and does provide one with a powerful advantage. In my opinion, it is a skill you never reveal to anyone you know. Because if you do, it will change things you can never fix.
and no... I won't "do you a favor".....lol,,lol