PrivateSchoolRocks
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Hello - I posted back in March about a question regarding an LGBTQ student and the private school I work for as a school counselor.
It appears you all were correct in all your assessments.
we elected not to invite the transgender student back for the 2023-2024 school year. The student’s mother’s response was extremely unexpected in that she said she had already decided not to return her child to us and was in fact withdrawing the child immediately, as she alleged the bullying the child received caused the child to have such extreme depression as to need intensive psychiatric treatment. And she demanded a refund of the tuition paid.
our school has a policy of no refunds of tuition, which we cited to the mother, and she counted that we also have a no bullying policy, which we did not follow. The head of the school got involved and denied her claim that her child’s absenteeism was caused by bullying, and since we have a policy about attendance, she didn’t deserve a refund.
she then sent a letter to both us and the credit card company (the credit card which she paid with) detailing every instance of the alleged bullying with names, dates, and times, and it included to the credit card that we charged her card for tuition without actually having her permission.
An investigation of the dates revealed our automated tuition system did charge her card prior to us having a conversation with her regarding extending her child’s probation at our school. So without conceding about the bullying, the head of the school did refund her tuition.
And because we did not concede on the bullying, the mother has retaliated by filing a grievance against me with my professional licensing board. I will now have to follow up with that to avoid problems with my license.
apparently we were in the wrong. We should not have repeatedly extended this student’s probation when it was obviously not working, which would have saved both child and school a great deal of angst.
It appears you all were correct in all your assessments.
we elected not to invite the transgender student back for the 2023-2024 school year. The student’s mother’s response was extremely unexpected in that she said she had already decided not to return her child to us and was in fact withdrawing the child immediately, as she alleged the bullying the child received caused the child to have such extreme depression as to need intensive psychiatric treatment. And she demanded a refund of the tuition paid.
our school has a policy of no refunds of tuition, which we cited to the mother, and she counted that we also have a no bullying policy, which we did not follow. The head of the school got involved and denied her claim that her child’s absenteeism was caused by bullying, and since we have a policy about attendance, she didn’t deserve a refund.
she then sent a letter to both us and the credit card company (the credit card which she paid with) detailing every instance of the alleged bullying with names, dates, and times, and it included to the credit card that we charged her card for tuition without actually having her permission.
An investigation of the dates revealed our automated tuition system did charge her card prior to us having a conversation with her regarding extending her child’s probation at our school. So without conceding about the bullying, the head of the school did refund her tuition.
And because we did not concede on the bullying, the mother has retaliated by filing a grievance against me with my professional licensing board. I will now have to follow up with that to avoid problems with my license.
apparently we were in the wrong. We should not have repeatedly extended this student’s probation when it was obviously not working, which would have saved both child and school a great deal of angst.