testedmonkey
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What is the name of your state? CA, child is in MN
My fiance has an 8yr old son in MN. I've been with this man since right after he returned to CA from MN and he has always kept in contact with his son. He calls several times a month, sends presents at the appropriate times, and has been back to see his son on two occassions since the divorce 4 years ago. I make the child support payments (with his money) without fail twice a month.
Here's the problem... they have a custody agreement that the son will be with his dad during holidays and summertime. My fiance didn't push for those visits early on, since the son was very young and he was trying to be sensitive to the ex's feelings about having her son so many miles away. At one point she tried to sue for full custody, but they settled out of court and agreed that my fiance would fly out there and spend time with the son, then she would fly the son out to CA for a visit, then he could fly by himself or my fiance could come get him. My fiance held up his part of the bargain, but the ex won't respond to any request to bring the son out. We're getting married next month and really want him to be in the wedding. My fiance emailed his ex three times so far asking about travel dates, offering to come get the son if she can't get time off of work, with no response.
What are our options?
My fiance has an 8yr old son in MN. I've been with this man since right after he returned to CA from MN and he has always kept in contact with his son. He calls several times a month, sends presents at the appropriate times, and has been back to see his son on two occassions since the divorce 4 years ago. I make the child support payments (with his money) without fail twice a month.
Here's the problem... they have a custody agreement that the son will be with his dad during holidays and summertime. My fiance didn't push for those visits early on, since the son was very young and he was trying to be sensitive to the ex's feelings about having her son so many miles away. At one point she tried to sue for full custody, but they settled out of court and agreed that my fiance would fly out there and spend time with the son, then she would fly the son out to CA for a visit, then he could fly by himself or my fiance could come get him. My fiance held up his part of the bargain, but the ex won't respond to any request to bring the son out. We're getting married next month and really want him to be in the wedding. My fiance emailed his ex three times so far asking about travel dates, offering to come get the son if she can't get time off of work, with no response.
What are our options?