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cmykds

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What is the name of your state? WI

I have posted about my and my families situation before. But to sum things up. My ex's husband physically abuse my daughter in december 2006. My ex only has supervised visits with the kids once a week because she is staying with her husband (because he after all didn't do anything wrong). And full placement and sole custody was given to me.
My daughter is in therepy as a result of the abuse and recently made a new disclosure about sexual abuse as well. This is currently in the DA's hands awaiting charges.

My ex has made no effert whatsoever in completing or even starting the case plan put forth by CPS and the court, e.g attend couseling with our daughter, attend individual couseling, etc.

Since December we have felt extremely unsafe at our home, because threats were made against me by the husband's family and I also fear that she will come and try to take the kids and disappear (she tried this before in 2005). I finally got things together and was just recently able to move. Now she is pressuring our case manager to give her our new address. He is telling me that she will eventually find out anyway through the courts and it's really about her know where the kids are, not about where it is that I live (which is a joke) I told them she does know where the kids are they live in the city of _______ with their Dad.

Isn't there a way to keep this information confidential? Is there a form or something that i need to file with the courts? What can I do?
 


What is the name of your state? WI

I have posted about my and my families situation before. But to sum things up. My ex's husband physically abuse my daughter in december 2006. My ex only has supervised visits with the kids once a week because she is staying with her husband (because he after all didn't do anything wrong). And full placement and sole custody was given to me.
My daughter is in therepy as a result of the abuse and recently made a new disclosure about sexual abuse as well. This is currently in the DA's hands awaiting charges.

My ex has made no effert whatsoever in completing or even starting the case plan put forth by CPS and the court, e.g attend couseling with our daughter, attend individual couseling, etc.

Since December we have felt extremely unsafe at our home, because threats were made against me by the husband's family and I also fear that she will come and try to take the kids and disappear (she tried this before in 2005). I finally got things together and was just recently able to move. Now she is pressuring our case manager to give her our new address. He is telling me that she will eventually find out anyway through the courts and it's really about her know where the kids are, not about where it is that I live (which is a joke) I told them she does know where the kids are they live in the city of _______ with their Dad.

Isn't there a way to keep this information confidential? Is there a form or something that i need to file with the courts? What can I do?

I'm not sure about your county. Where I live there are 5 different types of restraining orders and most of those cover concealing your address etc...from the individual to be restrained. You may want to check into a restraining order. If you have an attorney they will be able to guide you in this regard. If not, go to the county courthouse and ask if they have a facilitator that you can speak with about this.
 

Zephyr

Senior Member
I was thinking of a restraining order as well however since it was hubby's family that made the threats I doubt they would include mom in the order....at this point I guess, until a judge (or even guardian ad litem) tells you to reveal your address then don't. Do not miss any visits for mom. Document everything as you were advised before. Mom not working on her own garbage is not going to help her arguement if she does want to make an issue of this
 

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