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SadHurtnScared

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What is the name of your state? California
Hey all, I could really use your help and advice on this one. This is really urgent and very serious. I wish there was a way to make this short but it’s not going to be easy to do. This is really two urgent situations tangled together so I just have to tell you the story.

The bottom line is that a complaint was recently filed against me with the police stating that I am a known pornographer and worse. Please don’t leave it yet, it is absolutely not true and I would swear on the life of my entire loving family. Here’s what happened.

I agreed to help a friend of mines mother with the visitation of her 5 children by being her transportation. I went into to CPS and I was completely checked out and of course because I have a spotless record I was approved. The visitation went great except for the schedule they put us on did not leave any time for bathroom breaks for the kids. The was 14 hour ordeal by the way because the kids are scatter all over the city and then the 4 hour visitation. Anyway, everything went great otherwise. Until a few days ago that is. The mother called me and told me that her recent court ordered four hour unsupervised visits (this was the first btw) with her kids had just been canceled by the social worker against the court order, and that reason was because of me. The CPS social worker filed a document with the court and separate complaint against me with the police that I am a known pornographer, and a danger to the children. This is such an outrageous lie it’s not even funny, far from funny. I have been told by the mother’s counsel that the CPS worker stated in the report that two days after the visitation in question that she got a call form someone that said that I was pornographer and they can prove it. Apparently, this caller gave the CPS worker a website address that I built for a friend that absolutely 100% is not porn again I promise. The site I built for this person was lets say www.littlesally85.com (this is made up don’t go there I don’t know what is there), but the dumb bi#$% of a social worker went to www.littlesally.com and sure enough it does look like it could be porn. While I was at the mothers attorney’s office to clear myself and fight for the mother’s visitation rights I took him to both sites and then showed him to look up domain ownership on Internic/whois. He sure enough agreed that the porn site was not mine. Also, in the report it stated that the girl in the pictures on my real site was posing with farm animals which absolutely disgusting what she is implying and again an absolute lie. Oh, and she accused me of exploiting the girl on the website I built. Again, an absolute lie. Okay, so the bottom line is that this CPS worker used me as just another excuse to take away this mother’s rights to visit her kids and any chance that she ever gets them back again. There is a 13 year history of what CPS as been doing to this poor mother and her kids and I now know for the first time that it is all true. In fact, her attorney told me that there were never any criminal charges against the mother and there was never any evidence of any wrong doing. But, 13 years later this lady still does not have her kids back. Okay, sorry this post was supposed to be about me. What I would like to know is #1 how do I go about finding out exactly what this CPS worker filed against me, and #2 how can I make this Bi@#$ pay for what she has done, and in turn by proving that she completely lied about me to retract court ordered visitation rights of the mother and in turn prove that this little bi#$% and CPS has been lying about this poor family for 13 years to keep them in the system. I wonder if it has to do with the fact that one of the children became seriously sick and now almost completely blind while in the care of CPS. 13 years for God’s sake, and the mother has never done a thing. In fact, the original accusations were about her boyfriend and those accusations came from his scorned x wife 2 days after he left her to be with the lady. Hello, it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure it out. Oh, and yes it is the scorned x wife of this man that is on record of making the original complaint. She got her two kids back, but my friend lost her kids and it’s going on 13 years. Okay, I think I can stop now. I have sent letter documenting the entire case to the State organization that over sees the local CPS offices, and also plan to take it to the federal level. Now I believe all the stories because I know first hand how full of bull CPS and this social worker is. I didn’t believe the stories before because I figure she must have done something to cause CPS to take her kids away, but now I know it’s not true. Any advice you can give me about how I can keep my self from being investigated, arrested or worse and then make this social worker and maybe even CPS pay for it would be great…. And any advice on my friends case would be great too because her attorney really sucks. Court appointed of course. He wouldn’t even give me any advice on my case and I went way out of my way to help him help his client. So if there is any family law lawyers out there and can see it in there heart to get involved this case it would very much appreciated. The kid really love each other and their mom very much, I saw it first hand.

Thanks for listening,

SadHurtnScared
 


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SadHurtnScared

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Wow!

Should I be taking the lack of replies to this personal?

:confused: :(
 
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meganproser

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Early today I started to write a reply, but I realized this is a fairly complicated situation and I gave up. Since no one else is responding though, I'll share a few of my thoughts:

>>The bottom line is that a complaint was recently filed against me with the police stating that I am a known pornographer and worse

I assume you are saying you're accused of involvement with CHILD porn? Have you heard from the police yet?

>>The CPS social worker filed a document with the court and separate complaint against me with the police that I am a known pornographer, and a danger to the children.

Here again, I am assuming CPS did what they are REQUIRED to do, to check out any allegation that you are victimizing children.

If the police checked you out and learned the allegations were false, THEY should be asking the CPS for the name of the person who made what turned out to be a false report. What's happening with that?

I don't know how anyone could have taken the complaint seriously unless the caller gave them verifiable info that you are involved with the porn site.
Anyone who is familiar with the Net knows how easy it is to credit the wrong individual with Net activity.

Gotta go I have a phone call.
 

casa

Senior Member
As someone who's had false CPS complaints made against them- I will say that in our state they DEcriminalized false reporting. :mad: Also- they do not have to release the information of who made the allegation. Only a judge can subpoena that information. Usually caseworkers aren't even to discuss with anyone who called them- AND most of the complaints are anonymous.

All that said- It sounds like the website was mixed up due to a few different numbers/letters? If that is the case, print out the two different sites showing the address' and submit those to the caseworker.
Did you contact the police to find out what is going on with the case?

And regarding the last part about your friend and CPS- I'm sorry that is not the experience that I had (Thank God) CPS was thorough in my case and although it was invasive and upsetting- it ended up helping me in the longrun to have evidence of my parenting and how my children were taken care of.

I know you are trying to help your friend, but while this gets all straightened out, it would seem like distance is the best thing you can give this woman. She needs to find someone else not being investigated to be her transportation....not only that, but why doesn't she have her own transportation?

That's all the opinions I have on this one
 
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meganproser

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>>I know you are trying to help your friend, but while this gets all straightened out, it would seem like distance is the best thing you can give this woman. She needs to find someone else not being investigated to be her transportation....not only that, but why doesn't she have her own transportation?

Great advice Casa! :)
 
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SadHurtnScared

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In response to your reply

meganproser said:
Early today I started to write a reply, but I realized this is a fairly complicated situation and I gave up. Since no one else is responding though, I'll share a few of my thoughts:

First let me say thank you for your reply, I was starting to think no cared and even worse readers may actually think the alligations are true. Let me make it perfectly clear, I have never in my entire life taken a naked picture of any human being unless you want to count 25 years ago when I think I recall taking a naked picture of a highschool girlfriend getting out of the shower, in fun.
>>The bottom line is that a complaint was recently filed against me with the police stating that I am a known pornographer and worse

>I assume you are saying you're accused of involvement with CHILD porn? Have you heard from the police yet?

I guess those are the allegations, but the report specifically stated "known pornographer" not child pornographer.

No have not been contacted by the police yet, and I have been told that I won't be during the investigation. I was also adviced by a local attorney to not go in to try and find out anything. I should probably point out that this town is still like the wild wild west it is very well known that the police and sheriffs around her fly way below the law. I have heard nightmare stories and I guess that is what really scares me. I am innocent but that does not prevent them from doing what they want.

>>The CPS social worker filed a document with the court and separate complaint against me with the police that I am a known pornographer, and a danger to the children.

Here again, I am assuming CPS did what they are REQUIRED to do, to check out any allegation that you are victimizing children.
Required to do??? Aren't the required to make sure that allegations are true or even close before acting on them. Specially ones that are so severe, and based on a website that is so easy to have checked out.?

>If the police checked you out and learned the allegations were false, THEY should be asking the CPS for the name of the person who made what turned out to be a false report. What's happening with that?

Well what they should do and what they will do are two different things. Apparently, some one called the CPS case worker and told her to go to the website but it's the case worker that actually made the report. It's the same thing that happened to this lady when her kids were for taken. Someone called in a complaint that didn't even involve her kids at all, but they came and took her kids with out any evidence gave them back after 16 months of hell, and now it's 13 years later and they have been torturing her and harassing her ever since. Baiting her for failure, and constantly dangling the carrot in front of her saying she is going to get her kids back soon and then at the last minute hanking it a way and then trying to remove visitation rights as well. It's sick!

>I don't know how anyone could have taken the complaint seriously unless the caller gave them verifiable info that you are involved with the porn site.
Anyone who is familiar with the Net knows how easy it is to credit the wrong individual with Net activity.

My question too, but when it comes to CPS your are apparently guilty until proven innocent.

>Gotta go I have a phone call.
Thanks for your time and thoughts. :mad:
 
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meganproser

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>>No have not been contacted by the police yet, and I have been told that I won't be during the investigation. I was also adviced by a local attorney to not go in to try and find out anything.

Why is that? If you are innocent, I don't see why you should hesitate to go to the police and ask if what you have been told is true.

>> I should probably point out that this town is still like the wild wild west it is very well known that the police and sheriffs around her fly way below the law.

That may be so but what motive would they have to pick on you?

>>I have heard nightmare stories and I guess that is what really scares me. I am innocent but that does not prevent them from doing what they want.

They can't build a case with NOTHING. Why would they try to do so anyway?

>>It's the same thing that happened to this lady when her kids were for taken.

You only know for sure what this woman told you and you need to take that with a big grain of salt.

I think your best bet is to do a search on "cps abuse". There is a staggering amount of info on line about how to deal with cps. Most of the sites have forums where you can post your situation and ask for advice. Good luck!
 
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SadHurtnScared

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In Response

meganproser said:
>>No have not been contacted by the police yet, and I have been told that I won't be during the investigation. I was also adviced by a local attorney to not go in to try and find out anything.

>Why is that? If you are innocent, I don't see why you should hesitate to go to the police and ask if what you have been told is true.

The atty said they won't tell me anything at all if there is an investigation, and that they may try to question me or arrest me. Remember as far as I know they still think that website is mine.

>> I should probably point out that this town is still like the wild wild west it is very well known that the police and sheriffs around her fly way below the law.

>That may be so but what motive would they have to pick on you? Well, I'm sure they were shocked when they found the site they thought was mine, I can't blame them for that initially, but they acted before knowing for sure. For some reason they have been picking on this lady for 13 years and maybe they see me as somebody that can help her and they don't want that.

>>I have heard nightmare stories and I guess that is what really scares me. I am innocent but that does not prevent them from doing what they want.

They can't build a case with NOTHING. Why would they try to do so anyway?

>>It's the same thing that happened to this lady when her kids were for taken.

>You only know for sure what this woman told you and you need to take that with a big grain of salt.
Believe me I was taking it all with a grain of salt, and that is why I did not put myself out to help her except for the one time of me being the trasportation. But, when I found out what they were saying about me I then knew without a doubt what they are capable of and what lies they will tell. Also, don't forget the lady's atty confirmed to me that what she is saying to me is true. There were no crimminal charges against, and not even any evidence of the allegations. I guess all it takes to get someones kids taken away is a phone call.

>I think your best bet is to do a search on "cps abuse". There is a staggering amount of info on line about how to deal with cps. Most of the sites have forums where you can post your situation and ask for advice. Good luck!
I have been to a couple of the state and federal gov sites that regulate this stuff and as usual it is a massive maze bs, and broken links, etc.

Thanks for your time, I will be trying cps forums you're talking about.
 
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SadHurtnScared

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I think I answered most of your questions in my other reply so I won't repeat them.

She has been going to parenting classes, counseling, and even reqular drug testing for quite some time, and has received good reviews from all of them. I have a feeling that she lased out at the social worker and cps and they have a personal vendetta against her. I can't say I wouldn't have done some lashing out of my own after what they have put her and kids through.

She has transporation but we had to drive over 300 miles round trip to pick up all the kids and her car was deemed unsafe for that.

Yes, I am creating distance, but they might need me in court to prove my innocence and therefore prove she did not put her kids in danger by using me as the transportation.
 

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