Ok so, first of all, my choice of men is not really the issue here. I do now and have had several RO's against my ex including a couple of CPO's. The DA's office has decided to press charges against my ex for criminal threats and there were 3 no cite warrants for his arrest but no attempt by authorities was made to locate him since he is homeless even though he is on parole. A friend of mine saw him in a parking lot behind a local grocery store and notified me so i notified the PD who went and questioned him. My frnd watched from across the parking lot as the police spoke to him, made a phone call, cuffed him, put him in the squad car and left with him. Assuming that they were taking him to jail. I checked repeatedly that day to see if he was in custody and found that he was not but that the warrants had disappeared from the online search site. I called the jail late that evening and was told that he was not in custody. I called my advocate the next morning and was told that the warrants were still active in his computer system but that there was no record of him being arrested. He said that the arrest must not have hit the system yet but that he was definitely not in custody. I called PD who informed me that they had cited him out and dropped him off at the hospital in town because he was complaining about his leg that had been injured when he was hit by a car months earlier. The officers must have just dropped him off and left without making sure he went in because he had been kicked out and told never to return to that hospital a week earlier after being caught smoking weed in his hospital room. I was told that he should have been given a courtdate but none have ever shown up in the court dockets. To this moment i can no longer find his warrants or any courtdates for him and now with the courts closed i dont know what to do. So, yes, i have followed protocol. Ive asked for and was granted the TRO. Charges were filed by the DA's office but other than that nothing has been done. I am doing and have been doing everything i can to keep my son and myself safe. My choice of men, i agree, has been unfortunate i agree, but the only one who has abused me and threatened my son's life is his father. He left voicemail messages saying so. Ive done my part.
