Ok so, first of all, my choice of men is not really the issue here. I do now and have had several RO's against my ex including a couple of CPO's.
You say you have had "several" ROs - including CPOs - against him. Why "several"? Why were previous ones dropped? Did you ask for them to be dropped? Or, did you permit them to be violated in some way? Since they have typical expiration dates of three years, they don't just disappear on their own unless that time has passed.
The DA's office has decided to press charges against my ex for criminal threats and there were 3 no cite warrants for his arrest but no attempt by authorities was made to locate him since he is homeless even though he is on parole.
Well, if they can't locate him, they can't locate him. That's the problem of not having an address. It is also important to note that the police do not generally have warrant task forces that go out and hunt down fugitives ... unless you are in a very large jurisdiction and the fugitive is wanted for something like murder. Most wanted felons - even violent felons - are discovered on more innocuous things like traffic stops or other low level enforcement contacts.
A friend of mine saw him in a parking lot behind a local grocery store and notified me so i notified the PD who went and questioned him. My frnd watched from across the parking lot as the police spoke to him, made a phone call, cuffed him, put him in the squad car and left with him. Assuming that they were taking him to jail. I checked repeatedly that day to see if he was in custody and found that he was not but that the warrants had disappeared from the online search site. I called the jail late that evening and was told that he was not in custody. I called my advocate the next morning and was told that the warrants were still active in his computer system but that there was no record of him being arrested. He said that the arrest must not have hit the system yet but that he was definitely not in custody. I called PD who informed me that they had cited him out and dropped him off at the hospital in town because he was complaining about his leg that had been injured when he was hit by a car months earlier. The officers must have just dropped him off and left without making sure he went in because he had been kicked out and told never to return to that hospital a week earlier after being caught smoking weed in his hospital room. I was told that he should have been given a courtdate but none have ever shown up in the court dockets.
The law and agency policy
requires that they provide medical attention to an arrestee who complains of a medical issue. Most agencies lack the resources to babysit a prisoner while he is at the hospital, nor do they have the resources to sit on him if he is admitted to treatment and there for days or weeks. Further, the resulting hospitalization could land squarely on the arresting agency in such a case.
If he was "cited out" that would mean that the warrants were NOT felonies, they were misdemeanors. We cannot cite out felonies. So, they were either NOT for "Criminal threats" (a felony pursuant to PC 422), or the offenses had been dropped to a misdemeanor for some reason. It IS possible that the was released pursuant to PC 849(b), but, I have long held that the section does not apply to warrant releases or to situations where the circumstances are inconvenient, but, many agencies still permit it. Chances are, if these were felonies and there is no pending court date, they simply released him to his own devices and encouraged him to get checked out. They can't force him to get treated or to check himself in, and he probably lingered long enough to wait for the cops to leave.
To this moment i can no longer find his warrants or any courtdates for him and now with the courts closed i dont know what to do. So, yes, i have followed protocol. Ive asked for and was granted the TRO. Charges were filed by the DA's office but other than that nothing has been done. I am doing and have been doing everything i can to keep my son and myself safe. My choice of men, i agree, has been unfortunate i agree, but the only one who has abused me and threatened my son's life is his father. He left voicemail messages saying so. Ive done my part.
It sounds as if you have done your part. But, paying an attorney would be pointless because he or she could not do any more than you could. I would recommend that you report each and every breach of the TRO (such as phone calls, if they are a violation) to the police as they happen. KEEP reporting them. Also work with a victim-witness advocate, or a domestic violence counselor or advocate. Victm services are present in every count. Sometimes they are based out of the court, sometimes with the local DA's office. You'll have to check with your county as to where they are if you have not already worked with them.
Good luck.