I live in Orange County, California about 25 miles from my ex in Los Angeles County. We have joint legal custody, she has primary physical custody. For 3 years my son has consistently stayed with me one overnight every other week, and every other Wednesday to Monday morning. He has just turned 5 and started Kindergarten. Without discussing it with me she placed him in a school outside of her district which is an additional 20 minutes of drive time for me. In spite of this I believe that maintaining consistency in my son's schedule and being involved in his education experience is worth the extra driving. On top of this she has now joined him into a soccer league in the same city with many practices and games occurring during my parenting time. She believes that maintaining the current schedule is somehow disruptive to his education and is now threatening to go to court to have my legal custody stripped and visitation decreased. I have insisted on taking him to school and picking him up during my regularly scheduled times, and have refused to take him to soccer during my custodial time as I had asked her find a league in a convenient location which she refused. She claims that her attorney has assured her that it is an open and shut case, that no judge would want to see a child travel the distance while in school and that no judge would allow visitation with a father to take priority over participation in organized sports. She is from a wealthy family and I have no way to afford an attorney, she's even stated in a text message to me that she has a lot more "f--k you" (her words) money than I do. I don't see why it upsets her that I am willing and able to stay just as involved now that our son is in school and honestly don't see how she can have the right to arrange any extracurricular activities with him during my parenting time, but I must admit going to court unrepresented against her and her money does cause me to worry. Any thoughts, advice, experience welcomed, thank you.