What is the name of your state? VA
My boyfriend has 1 year old twins with his ex. They have an agreement that was reached through mediation that states that he had visitation EO Saturday from 8a-5p until they turned 1 year old then it switched to EO weekend from Fri at 7p to Sun at 4p. He was staying with his mother when the mediation took place, but has since moved in with me. The twins just turned a year old and his ex has recently filed a complaint to have his overnight visitation taken away and reduced back to Sat days only (until the boys are 5 yo) due to his mother being a smoker and the ex feels the boys are in danger of her leaving a cigarette burning in bed at night. She also stated in the complaint that since he had not gotten the boys for 13 weeks, she didnt feel comfortable with them staying overnight with him. That was an outright lie as I met the boys for the first time 3 weeks before she filed the complaint, and they were with their father at that time. We have pictures of them with dates to back that.
My boyfriend just wants to spend the small amount of time he has with his children and she is trying to take that away. She filed this motion 2 weeks before his first scheduled overnight visit, and then told him he couldnt have them for the visit.
He cant keep them at our house due to the OLD Va law stating that cohabitation before marriage is illegal. She has also asked him repeatedly to sign over his parental rights, but he has refused.
So here are my questions...
1. I have read some other posts here that say the original order has to be followed until the court date, does that stand in VA too?
If so, he has already prepared a show cause for her withholding visitation that I am delivering to the court today.
2. Does she have a case to change visitation solely on those grounds?
3. Should he return to mediation and try to fight her when she doesnt want to give an inch or would he be better off waiting for court and letting the judge decide?What is the name of your state?
My boyfriend has 1 year old twins with his ex. They have an agreement that was reached through mediation that states that he had visitation EO Saturday from 8a-5p until they turned 1 year old then it switched to EO weekend from Fri at 7p to Sun at 4p. He was staying with his mother when the mediation took place, but has since moved in with me. The twins just turned a year old and his ex has recently filed a complaint to have his overnight visitation taken away and reduced back to Sat days only (until the boys are 5 yo) due to his mother being a smoker and the ex feels the boys are in danger of her leaving a cigarette burning in bed at night. She also stated in the complaint that since he had not gotten the boys for 13 weeks, she didnt feel comfortable with them staying overnight with him. That was an outright lie as I met the boys for the first time 3 weeks before she filed the complaint, and they were with their father at that time. We have pictures of them with dates to back that.
My boyfriend just wants to spend the small amount of time he has with his children and she is trying to take that away. She filed this motion 2 weeks before his first scheduled overnight visit, and then told him he couldnt have them for the visit.
He cant keep them at our house due to the OLD Va law stating that cohabitation before marriage is illegal. She has also asked him repeatedly to sign over his parental rights, but he has refused.
So here are my questions...
1. I have read some other posts here that say the original order has to be followed until the court date, does that stand in VA too?
If so, he has already prepared a show cause for her withholding visitation that I am delivering to the court today.
2. Does she have a case to change visitation solely on those grounds?
3. Should he return to mediation and try to fight her when she doesnt want to give an inch or would he be better off waiting for court and letting the judge decide?What is the name of your state?