Visitation denied by my ex

[W@DAD]

WI-My ex and I are having personal issues. I share custody of my 3 year old son, however my ex has primary placement. When we split up we set up visitation among ourselves. Recently there was a confrontation initiated by my ex and now she refuses to let me see my son on the day's we had initially agreed upon. I love my son and want to be involved in his life. What should I do.

 

[ezmarelda]

WI-My ex and I are having personal issues. I share custody of my 3 year old son, however my ex has primary placement. When we split up we set up visitation among ourselves. Recently there was a confrontation initiated by my ex and now she refuses to let me see my son on the day's we had initially agreed upon. I love my son and want to be involved in his life. What should I do.

what does your court order say re: visitation?

 

[W@DAD]

There is no court ordered visitation. We set it up among ourselves. I have arraged a meeting with a mediator this Tuesday to help eleviate our issues. But if this doesn't work, how do I go about getting a court order.

 

[ezmarelda]

There is no court ordered visitation. We set it up among ourselves. I have arraged a meeting with a mediator this Tuesday to help eleviate our issues. But if this doesn't work, how do I go about getting a court order.

let's start at the begining...#1 you said ex...is that ex- girlfriend or wife?

 

[W@DAD]

ex girlfriend

 

[ezmarelda]

ex girlfriend

ok that brings us to #2 have you LEGALY been declared the father?

 

[W@DAD]

Yes, I am paying child support through child services.

 

[ezmarelda]

Yes, I am paying child support through child services.

I am always amazed at people who have gone through the process for c/s yet they still have no court order for visitation....
...anyway...you need to go back to court and have a parenting/visitation schedule put in place...I do not know the in's and out's of your state hopefuly someone (like maybe BB)will come and assist you further

good luck

 

[BelizeBreeze]

read his other post then see why I'm not wasting my time on this idiot.

 

[ezmarelda]

read his other post then see why I'm not wasting my time on this idiot.

WOW ....I am sorry I bothered to reply at all now....

...by the way BB...i really am sorry for being vulgar earlier today....I know I was naughty bu did I realy diserve to get booted?

 

[BelizeBreeze]

WOW ....I am sorry I bothered to reply at all now....

...by the way BB...i really am sorry for being vulgar earlier today....I know I was naughty bu did I realy diserve to get booted?

actually yes. There are ways to get the point across. That was not one of them.

 

[ezmarelda]

actually yes. There are ways to get the point across. That was not one of them.

I honestly am sorry....I should not have let it go that far...

 

[Ithildriel]

I honestly am sorry....I should not have let it go that far...

Eme, you got the boot?

Why you lil Vixen.

 

[tigger22472]

After reading the other post the OP should know and be prepared to defend himself (or attempt) on that battery charge when filing for visitation and don't be surprised when mom asks for supervised visits and it's granted.