i am from missouri and my childs ncp is out of state and he hasn't seen our child in 9 years and he hasn't talk to our child in 7 years. the only time he contacts our child is when i request a modification order. he is remarried and so am i. he has other children and so do i. i have control and custody of our child. our child wants to see him but doesn't want to go out of state atleast not yet because of the time that has lapse since our child saw him last or talk to him. he told our child that if i don't let our child go with him he would have me thrown in jail. can he legally do this when he has been astrange ncp for 7 to 9 years. he owes back child support and the only way i get the little bit that i get is the state has to garnish his wages and garnish his federal tax return. i told him he could come to our town to visit our child if he really wants to see our child but he told me that he will only come to get our child and take our child out of state to his home. i can't let this happen! please some one help me find out what my stand is!!!!