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fryziuk
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What is the name of your state? Illinois
I have sole custody of my 2 boys (9 & 10yrs). I am remarried, My ex is remarried. My ex and his wife are always taking me back to court, but dont follow court orders themselves. Ex) He didnt pay child support , day care for 6 weeks (laid off, receiving unemployment w/$8,000.00in bank) He took me to court for abatement, and increased visitation. After 10mos of continuances he had to pay me what he owed, but only 10%of my legal fees (even though he went againt court order), mediator saying he didnt deserve increased visitation because he doesnt use visitation he already has, judge granted him 1/2 Christmas, 1/2 Spring break, 2 weeks in summer when he works. Judge stated this was "typical" visitaion, even though I have sole custody. I have a court order stating we both have right to daily phone visitation. He has refused to allow me to speck w/my children. What should I do? I have 5 more days of this. Why do I have to abide by court orders, but he doesnt have too? Wife also threatens my life in front of my children when I have had to pick them up, and they want it written in this last court order w/change of visitation, that I am responsible for pick ups, I have refused, I dont know if the judge will agree w/me or not. I am wooried about my boys and want to talk to them, what should I do?
I have sole custody of my 2 boys (9 & 10yrs). I am remarried, My ex is remarried. My ex and his wife are always taking me back to court, but dont follow court orders themselves. Ex) He didnt pay child support , day care for 6 weeks (laid off, receiving unemployment w/$8,000.00in bank) He took me to court for abatement, and increased visitation. After 10mos of continuances he had to pay me what he owed, but only 10%of my legal fees (even though he went againt court order), mediator saying he didnt deserve increased visitation because he doesnt use visitation he already has, judge granted him 1/2 Christmas, 1/2 Spring break, 2 weeks in summer when he works. Judge stated this was "typical" visitaion, even though I have sole custody. I have a court order stating we both have right to daily phone visitation. He has refused to allow me to speck w/my children. What should I do? I have 5 more days of this. Why do I have to abide by court orders, but he doesnt have too? Wife also threatens my life in front of my children when I have had to pick them up, and they want it written in this last court order w/change of visitation, that I am responsible for pick ups, I have refused, I dont know if the judge will agree w/me or not. I am wooried about my boys and want to talk to them, what should I do?