What is the name of your state? Missouri. Well, me and my ex are divorced. Niether one has recieved a copy of the divorce decree. Yet she wont let me have my children when she is supposed to and hasnt let me have them since july of 2004. She says she wont let me see them till i pay her child support and we agreed that i wouldnt pay till we got the decree and send it to the child support enforcement agency to deduct it straight from my paycheck. Is there anything i can do to see my kids who i miss greatly? Is there any legal action i can take against her? Please help.