Rayven1230
Junior Member
What is the name of your state?NY State: My boyfriend is supposed to be coming home on parole on Friday December 17th. The issue we have encountered is, he is married, but he and his wife have not been together for over a year. He has divorce papers filled out, he just needs the money to file them. He submitted my address for parole in October and the address was approved on November 18th, 2004. Last week his "wife" called the parole division and made up a very slanderous lie about me and they took her word for it with no investigation into the matter. They also say that she would like him to come home which he flat out refuses to do as her home is not a good environment for him and they are no longer together. His parole officer now denies my address stating that he is worried about the domestic issue at hand. Now clearly my boyfriend wants to live with me, and I have an acceptable address, they just are afraid of domestic issues with the "wife". They told me if he had his own address and could maintain that address without state aid he could still live in my town. So, I suggested that I could move in with my mother and he could keep my apartment for which his mother and I would pay the rent and expenses until he finds employment. Now today they say that probably won't be acceptable either because the "wife" may still be irate. How is it her right to decide where he can and can't live? There is nothing wrong with my address except that she doesn't want him with me. Doesn't he have any rights in this matter and even more so don't I? Or, isn't there at least something I could do?