Wow
Yes we both took that into consideration we had our children and she had a good job and they laid about 150 off. I went and got a better job and we were doing ok. the ex husband decided to go on disability because of his bi polar so he would only have to pay $50 a month. He gets every chance to see his kids but does he no. When it is convenient for him. My ex decided to take me for more money why I don't know. When she gets money for her other children she has two jobs, and her husband works. But she has 2 new cars, a new house, and a new baby on the way so she needs more money.
Sorry this is just really hard everything gets going good we get all of our financial situations good are credit back on track to have it fall apart all at once. My wife says that she would go get a job but, I really don't think she could handle, school, job, keeping up with the house, and the kids. I work from 1:30 am to any where from 4-7 pm. So I am not much help for somethings.
I agree with some of the comments and advice that has been made to this post....However, sounds like your new wife needs to get herself some sort of a part time job, something to help contribute to the household. I work full time, take care of my two children, help coach my daughters softball team and go to school at home on-line. I aslo go home and clean, do laundry and cook... It is hard balancing life, work and your children, however, you need to do what u have to do to pay bills, keep food on the table and keep clothes on your kids backs. You have to put aside your dreams and desires for a while until things settle down or you look for alternatives to achieve your dreams if possible. It is good to better yourself educationally or to get a better paying job, however, dont complain in the mean time about not having the money if you dont feel your spouse "couldnt handle work,the kids, school and the house". Plenty of people do it everyday and are tired and cranky because of it, but thats life!!!
If your ex-wife is working 2 jobs, is married and collects from another man as well as you for child support and still asks for more money from you, shame on her. Selfish...Did the judge take into consideration her take home pay and how much time does she have with the children??
I have not received child support in almost 3 months. My ex-husband was fired from his job back in May, but paid child support in full in May and June. Come July, he said he could not afford to pay me the full amount and only paid me like $200. Then come August, 1 week before he started a new job, he went to court to file for modification of child support. He hasnt paid me anything since July......I constantly get excuses of why he cant pay me yet his wife (who supposedly has fibro-myalgia and lupus) cannot work and he is the sole support of the family. His wife is also not receiving child support from her ex-husband supposedly, which I cannot confirm for sure, but this is what I am told. Everytime I see his wife, she looks well enough to me that she could work some sort of part time job to help support the family but of course I am not a doctor, I dont know the entire situation.
