I've been on here before. Just another part to the never-ending saga. My husband's ex is a teacher in a city 30 minutes from us. He had been paying his child support in cash, against my advice, because our checks were stolen and we had our account frozen by the bank until the investigation is over. I've been paying bills with money orders. I told him to pay her with a m.o., or to get a receipt from her, anything to have proof. He said he didn't believe she'd do something so low as to say he wasn't paying her. Guess what? He went to jail for non-payment of child support. Ok, so we pay his bail and he learned his lesson the hard way. Now, yesterday, she called his mother and said that she'd had to call the police to the school because someone had left a "threatening letter" in her car and had somehow gotten past school security into her class room and written a note to her on the chalk board and it was signed with my husband's name. She said that they'd had to evacuate the school for security reasons, and that the someone had said they'd seen a tall man with dark hair near her car. My husband is tall and has dark hair. But he was 3 hours away in another city, delivering oxygen tanks for his job during the time she is saying it happened. I talked to the police department in her city. They said they received no such call from that school and had no such disturbance. Is there anything we can do? I mean, this is just crazy stuff. She comes up with stuff out of thin air. We're worried she's trying to find some other reason to put him in jail, since he isn't dumb enough to give her cash again. I told his mom not to talk to her anymore unless it's about their child, but she said she can't do that.
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