i am a mother of two ages 5 and 2 in RI. I am getting divorced, however, i am still living with my husband...temp orders originaly scheduled in court for march have now ended up not heard until july. i'm going crazy! i am a stay at home mom, i work only a few hours a week usually on the weekends. i am having trouble with what would be best for my girls, my biggest concern seems to be that they continue to live in the home that was purchased 2 years ago....great house,great neighborhood, wonderful town. i can't afford to buy him out, he can. he is a great father. he and i have discussed him having custody with me being the only person to care for them after school until he gets home pretty much i would be able to see them at any time and in the summer..when school is out he agreed to pay me to care for them on a full time basis rather than hire an outside source. he would also waive child support. another problem that i am having with the whole thing is i ahve always been the one that cares for the girls from the moment they wake up...quallity time to me is making their breakfast, bathing them...etc. would it make a differnce to them if it were daddy doing those things rather than me? will they think that i am abandoning them, rather than sacrificing for thier sake? AM I?