I have not sent ONE complaint to the court EVER. I have not attacked my X. I have shown in good faith that I was willing to negotiate a new parenting plan.bleulaluna said:Its not supposed to be about who wins or who loses. Its supposed to be about the children. Based on your posts do you think that this present scenerio that you're in is 'winning?'
He is the one who has maliciously attacked me and kept us in court for frivilous matters for all this time. Not once have I been found in contempt - and as a matter of fact the judge has said in his statements that my X's motions to the court are "not well taken".
Many on this forum would like to make my situation what it is not. Anyone can take words out of context.
I don't appreciate the claims that I am "playing games".
I don't stand to gain anything personally from this situation with my X. In fact, it has cost me thousands of $$$. The reason I stand strong is for my children. I believe that they are the ones who have a right to both parents, a secure financial future and a loving environment. My X has been clouded by the jealousy and selfishness of his new wife and hopefully soon he will see the light and he will once again be the loving caring father that he was.
And no - this is not about a relationship between him and me. Once we were divorced we did not interact except for matters of the children. We have had completely seperate lives for 8 years.
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