What is the name of your state? california. I have filed all of my paperwork for a legal seperation, custody, alimony and so forth. We have a court date in 2 weeks. He has not responded to the papers I served him with. What happens next? Do I go to my court date or will it be post poned? Also, what if we want to work things out before or after my court date. how does that work?What is the name of your state?