sherryschutz
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? Wisconsin.
My mother died in May of 2005 and her estate is still open. I had an estate attorney come to her home and do a will for her, and I was the power of attorney. After my mom passed away, right away and took care of funeral expenses for her and received the monies that my mom had in a 401k and a life insurance policy. She also had an apartment that she lived in and paid $127,000 for rights to live in the apartment. She did not own the apartment but with the big up front monies she gave them, she was able to live there for as long as she wanted and she paid a monthly maintenance fee.
After the money was divided between my siblings, I have three siblings and myself, I was thinking about the place where my mom lived and how things over there did not make sense for all of the elderly people to pay these up front costs like they are buying something when in fact they are not. So the estate attorney had another attorney in the office who took a look at the case that I wanted to proceed against the place where my mom lived. Now this was nothing that was thought of while my mom was alive, it was never ever talked about once, my mother and I never discussed anything about going against this place where she lived.
After all the monies were taken care of, I decided to hire this other attorney to go after the place where my mom lived, I alone did all the foot work, went to hearings, etc., none of my siblings wanted anything to do with it. All they were worried about was getting their money. I worked on that case along with this attorney for two years, and I also got other people to join in this to go against the place where they lived. They offered a settlement on behalf of what I did in the amount of $100,000.00 and after attorney costs and fees, it ended up being around $52,000.00.
Now the estate attorney first thought that she should have gotten some sort of money because she gave this case to another attorney, and he never gave her any money. The estate attorney then proceeded to tell me that this had to be part of the estate, and had to be divided four ways. The attorney who won the case for me did not feel this should be part of the estate, but he was not an estate attorney.
I did not feel this was part of the estate, and I do not feel as though this money should have to be divided with my siblings at all. What if one of my siblings decided to do this on their own after our mom's death and did all the work. Would that sibling then have to turn around and divided that money up four ways?
I have given the money to two of my siblings which I did not want to do and did not feel I should have had to, but the other sibling, which we never got along ever, told me she did not want any part of this case I was doing, and would not talk to the attorney and would not go to any hearings, would not in any way whatsoever have her name involved. My other two siblings thought the same way as her. So that sibling, I have yet to give her the fourth of her supposed share.
In retrospect, I should not have given any money to any of my siblings, it was something I did after the fact, and I alone thought about it and did something about this. There is now a class action suit against the place where my mom lived with my case settled.
My question is, do you agree with me that this should not of been part of the estate settlement of my mom's? Please respond, as I am thinking about hiring another attorney to get the money back from the other two siblings, as the one sibling who did not received a fourth, is threatening to get an attorney to get her fourth. The attorney I had for the estate, does not answer phone calls, does not return my phone calls, does not respond to letters that I have written to inquire as to why the estate is still open and it will be three years this May.
Any assistance or thoughts on this would be greatly appreciated.
Sherry
My mother died in May of 2005 and her estate is still open. I had an estate attorney come to her home and do a will for her, and I was the power of attorney. After my mom passed away, right away and took care of funeral expenses for her and received the monies that my mom had in a 401k and a life insurance policy. She also had an apartment that she lived in and paid $127,000 for rights to live in the apartment. She did not own the apartment but with the big up front monies she gave them, she was able to live there for as long as she wanted and she paid a monthly maintenance fee.
After the money was divided between my siblings, I have three siblings and myself, I was thinking about the place where my mom lived and how things over there did not make sense for all of the elderly people to pay these up front costs like they are buying something when in fact they are not. So the estate attorney had another attorney in the office who took a look at the case that I wanted to proceed against the place where my mom lived. Now this was nothing that was thought of while my mom was alive, it was never ever talked about once, my mother and I never discussed anything about going against this place where she lived.
After all the monies were taken care of, I decided to hire this other attorney to go after the place where my mom lived, I alone did all the foot work, went to hearings, etc., none of my siblings wanted anything to do with it. All they were worried about was getting their money. I worked on that case along with this attorney for two years, and I also got other people to join in this to go against the place where they lived. They offered a settlement on behalf of what I did in the amount of $100,000.00 and after attorney costs and fees, it ended up being around $52,000.00.
Now the estate attorney first thought that she should have gotten some sort of money because she gave this case to another attorney, and he never gave her any money. The estate attorney then proceeded to tell me that this had to be part of the estate, and had to be divided four ways. The attorney who won the case for me did not feel this should be part of the estate, but he was not an estate attorney.
I did not feel this was part of the estate, and I do not feel as though this money should have to be divided with my siblings at all. What if one of my siblings decided to do this on their own after our mom's death and did all the work. Would that sibling then have to turn around and divided that money up four ways?
I have given the money to two of my siblings which I did not want to do and did not feel I should have had to, but the other sibling, which we never got along ever, told me she did not want any part of this case I was doing, and would not talk to the attorney and would not go to any hearings, would not in any way whatsoever have her name involved. My other two siblings thought the same way as her. So that sibling, I have yet to give her the fourth of her supposed share.
In retrospect, I should not have given any money to any of my siblings, it was something I did after the fact, and I alone thought about it and did something about this. There is now a class action suit against the place where my mom lived with my case settled.
My question is, do you agree with me that this should not of been part of the estate settlement of my mom's? Please respond, as I am thinking about hiring another attorney to get the money back from the other two siblings, as the one sibling who did not received a fourth, is threatening to get an attorney to get her fourth. The attorney I had for the estate, does not answer phone calls, does not return my phone calls, does not respond to letters that I have written to inquire as to why the estate is still open and it will be three years this May.
Any assistance or thoughts on this would be greatly appreciated.
Sherry